Should I inquire?

[Anonymous]

So me and this guy have been dating for almost 2 months. He asked me to be his girlfriend like 5 times. Now fast forward and we barely talk now that I am. We were texting yesterday and when I asked when he would want to see me he said huh? So I said never mind that’s a answer. Haven’t heard from him since 12 p. Yesterday. I don’t want to look desperate and text him if he is ghosting me but I don't know what I should do it’s making me anxious waiting around for a message that’s probably not coming but I’m he isn’t going to be straight forward with me if I ask. Should I continue to wait or just call or something?

[HollyK21]

I’d say bring it up, because you absolutely must be able to talk to your partner when things bother you. If you can’t talk about the small things, then you can’t talk about the big ones, which is a big NO. However if you have that talk and he keeps up that drifting off behavior then I’d say maybe a relationship with him isn’t the best idea and end it. There’s a difference between wanting to be reassured about his interest in you, and flat out dismissing red flag behavior. It’s too soon into even knowing him for you to worry about these things, and suffer with anxiety and/or stress because of it. No relationship is worth struggling with your mental health.