Will a guy get some hints if I adds him on facebook?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Relying on someone to “catch hints” no matter what you do is just childish, and not saying that in a rude way. If you’re too shy to tell him you like him then you are setting yourself up to watch someone braver swoop in and steal your opportunity.

[Asker]

You are right but he's my brothers friend I only talked to him once but I wanna hangout with him

[Asker]

But dunno how to go about it goes my brother has moved to a new country just yesterday

[Opinion Owner]

Honestly there’s no easy way to do that. Like at least if you were friends with him somehow when your brother was around it would be easy to ask him to hang out and see how it goes. But since you didn’t, the only option you have is to be brave and be blunt if you really want him. Now that you’ve said the background, I really don’t think adding him would drop any hints, because your his friends sister I would just think it’s casual.

[Asker]

i talked with him last week for a bit and he shared his food with me first

[Asker]

i will need to ask to hangout

[Opinion Owner]

Well that’s good! And yeah, you should be straightforward and ask. Just be ready for whatever the outcome is, like on the bright side he will be interested and you two can date. On the downside if he’s not interested then it might be uncomfortable especially as him being your brothers friend.

[Asker]

yeah the fries thing was a good sign maybe i dunno. hopefully he will interested. my friends say imweird because they think he is really not attractive

[Opinion Owner]

Tbh that would be fine with me lol, as you get older you learn that it doesn’t matter what anyone thinks about your man’s looks but you. Beauty is subjective and looks fade. Personality and being a good person matters more than dating a guy your friends find attractive.

[Asker]

Absolutely 100% they tend to be more down to earth and don't have a miuon options like going after those idiot popular guys

[Opinion Owner]

Yep! Don’t get me wrong, the “nice” guy or the dude who isn’t so attractive but you give him a chance anyway are also capable of screwing you over someone cuter. Still I wouldn’t not give them a chance based on looks alone. That’s just shallow. Your friends have probably missed out on some good men because of that thought process.

[Adronicus]

Want to give him some hints? Try touch, groom him (lint off his shirt, even if there is none), eye contact, smile. Even if I had a Facebook & some gal added me I wouldn't think nothing of it, but do any of the things I mentioned first & aware men will instantly know. Some of us are dense & you could literally throw ypurself on their lap & kiss them & they still wouldn't get it.

[Asker]

I first talked with him a little last Wednesday and he also shared his fries with me first

[Adronicus]

That's great:) be hyper aware of touch, I can only speak for myself but I NEVER touch a woman I don't like. I don't mean in a dirty way either, jut little things.

[Jamie05rhs]

Probably not. We're terrible at catching hints.

[Ms_Facesitter]

I doubt it.

[Asker]

i dunno what to do

[Ms_Facesitter]

Do what they do, ask them out.

[StickStickity13]

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