How can I be good enough to find a girlfriend if I’m 5’5 and have baby face?

[Thatoneguy45]

Feel like being short and looking young in the face makes me invisible 😔 29 and the only relationship I had lasted 3 weeks I feel repulsive

[Anonymous]

I'm a short guy, and until recently people would say I had a baby face. I've always looked younger than I actually am. However, I haven't had the same problems as an adult.

It's actually very simple, if you ignore the things most people will tell you. Some of this may seem illogical, maybe even a bit nuts, but some of these are things which women I've dated have straight-up told me.

It's all about masculinity. Normal, feminine women are attracted to strong, masculine men.

When you're short you're at a disadvantage, because taller men are considered to be more masculine. Whenever you ask women why they prefer a taller man, they'll say something like "he makes me feel safe", as in she feels like he could physically protect her.

Again, even if we live in a relatively safe society where she probably wouldn't need a man to physically protect her, and even if being tall doesn't automatically mean that a guy can fight, it doesn't have to be logical. It's about feeling that masculine vs feminine polarity.

You have to find ways to become or come across as being more masculine, without it seeming to be try-hard. The easiest way to do this in my opinion is by lifting weights and training in combat sports. These are the things women say they find attractive about me despite me being vertically challenged. Hang out with those types of dudes and having them rub off on you also. Aside from providing for a woman that's what masculinty/being a man really comes down to when you think about our evolutionary history.

[MagicCarpet1]

Ignore women, and remain virgin to join the Dark Wizardry,

You will gain powers unmatched even by the most cunning of sorcerers. The Reward for ignoring feminists, a shame normals can't enjoy it with us.

[jennifer_bloom]

I find girls would rather have a compassionate guy than a tough one so you can use philanthropy and virtue to attract a guy if your short.

[Avicenna]

Your problem is encapsulated in your question- you don't think you're dateable. Drop the defeatist mentality and live your life and become the person that you want to be.

[Freyke]

Stop looking at your flaws and focus on your strengths. It's how you carry yourself.

[DWornock]

You need to look for a short big girl.

[In_Trance]

Find someone 5'3