Would it be weird if you're dating a 25 year-old virgin woman?

[Anonymous]

I've gone out on dates but just have never fallen in love before. I'm not religious at all. I don't care about church nor god.

Like most women, I do wish I can experience those emotions, desires and eventually get married. I'm a 25 year-old virgin though. Isn't this weird?

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+1 y

I just felt nothing on those dates. The guy was cute, well spoken and had good qualities but I didn't feel it.

[ohshee]

For me your answer is the best answer ever when you find somebody that you like we all have an energy within us when that energy connects with somebody else you're going to know what you're going to feel it because you're going to melt with it it is the most powerful beautiful feeling in this world and when you can become one with somebody believe me you're going to want to have sex you can want to do everything together because you're going to want that touch that kiss just to look into each other's eyes it will absolutely do melt you and it is the most powerful beautiful feeling you will ever feel
Seeing you need to hold out and wait for that person because I can feel you right now from where I'm at you're very beautiful person with a very beautiful heart you have passion compassion you are just a very very good person and I can feel that from here seeing if you knew anything about energy you might be able to feel mine from there and what you understand energy and you know how to use it then you understand exactly what I'm saying and for some reason I don't know why I'm going to say this but I do believe that you can feel energy and you know exactly what I'm talking about and that has to drive you crazy when you can feel some of these energy but they can't feel yours or vice versa I know it drives me crazy yeah I would date you just because I can feel your energy and I almost can tell you all about yourself

[Nawlins34]

It's not "weird"; it's very uncommon.

Honestly, in my opinion, she hasn't met a guy who moves the needle for her yet.
That's entirely possible.

And we shouldn't assume that if she met this guy, she would know instantly. Because it rarely occurs, it could take months for her to feel something she's never felt before. We have to allow for that possibility.

That's the only scenario I'd date a virgin. If I'm not THAT guy though, I'd know fairly soon and I'd respect her enough to end it with her still holding her V-card.

What I would NOT do, is date a virgin who is intentionally waiting for marriage. No.

[OlderAndWiser]

Well, yes, it would be weird for ME to be dating a 25 year old virgin woman!

[Anonymous]

IT would be AWESOME!
Unless that date was all about losing your virginity. I would pass.
AND CONGRATULATIONS on keeping it!!!
by the way I was a virgin till 29.
Regarding your followups. Not sure why having sex is so tantamount. I had a girlfriend that wanted to when I was in high school. I just didn't. It did not feel right. While I am a bible reader now and benefited tendentiously from the wisdom there in, it had 0 influence on me then.
So if this stranger on the internet can give some advice you seem to be seeking. Just stay the course. Don't be in a hurry, 25 is quite young. In fact your brain just finished developing in case you didn't know.
Go find a passion to peruse. while doing so you might find someone else who is passionate about that and who knows...

[Fireguy17]

Not really.
Unlike the 60 through the 80s it isn't unusual for people to be waiting longer now to have sex.
School, careers getting settled can keep you from being in a relationship until later in life.

[Asker]

That too. I also have a busy schedule that it's hard to find more time available.

[Lionman95]

No though it may seem like that. Some people just wait with sex and have it later. I don´t think that´s a big deal.

[Asker]

I guess it's an ''I just haven't found one that rocks my world'' for me since I'm not religious at all.

[Lionman95]

Yes so don´t overthink that there will a guy that won´t turn that in something against you. I don´t see much of a problem in that.

[Asker]

yeah I've been adviced by my close friends to be careful about the lying, lovebombers that say too much and in the end waste your time. I don't want that to happen either.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

Dont be insecure about it and step out of these social stereotypical roles that "women should marry" or all of thst. Be happy with yourself alone. Single life is a blessing. Find yourself good friends, its better than a relationship

[Jay3344]

I think it’s fine, being a virgin or not doesn’t really change your personality too much and that’s what’s important for a relationship. If anything it would only affect confidence but there are other ways of boosting confidence.

[TheSpaceGnome]

No, it's not weird, weird is fucking people you don't intend to stay with.

[Asker]

yeah I don't understand how some people screw around, changing people as if they were a pair of socks. I don't get that mentality.
The issue I've been running into is that I haven't felt any deep connection with neither of the guy I dated. I know that to start a relationship, there must be a spark. I felt nothing. Even if the guy was good looking, fit, well spoken and had good qualities, I didn't feel the magic into it.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I'm in my mid 30s and I still haven't found a right fit for me, its really hard to find women who prefer to stay home drawing and gaming and playing instruments and reading and watching anime, and women online in gaming lobbies are harsh as fuck most of the time, or just plain hidden. But thats like, the only way to meet anyone :/

[FilmGuy93]

Not really... it's a little bit weird, but it wouldn't turn me off.

[Caunsos]

Nope. Maybe it would that like 12 years age difference. Would they call me boomer? Fucking hate the misuse of boomer.

[bamesjond0069]

You have a sexual hangup. And it isn't causing you enough issues to bother to think it through.

[Asker]

Now I'm starting to wonder if I'm having a very low sex drive or I might be partially asexual. Even religious girls actually can feel the sparks. I coudn't feel anything with the guys I dated.

[bamesjond0069]

there's a certain type of man (beta) that most women dont feel sexual sparks with and it wouldn't surprise me if thats the kind of guys you're dating.

[DWornock]

It is possible to know she is NOT a virgin but it is impossible to know if she is a virgin.

[Anonymous]

I don't mind as long as she's going to eventually have sex because I don't want to have a asexual relationship

[Anonymous]

you need someone who will love you right. You’ve probably been talking with losers.

[Anonymous]

no not weird but your not believing in God is a major turn off though

[Berethor]

I prefer a woman who is virgin, I am not into hos.

[Asker]

If I may ask, what are the reasons you like virgin women?
I'm really not a devoted religious type and as mentioned don't care about church. I'm not really one of those ''waiting till marriage'' type women. I think in my case I might not even have a normal sex drive. I haven't felt anything with any of the guys I've gone out on dates. Nothing

[Berethor]

It's the nature adores a virgin trope, even if you not religious, virginity have a value on it's own, it's the physical and mental purity, a virgin woman is not a ho, that's why I like it. You might not be waiting until marriage but you still waiting for something, otherwise how are you still a virgin woman? yes you might be asexual, though with women it hard to tell, women tend to be less sexual than men anyway.

[slatyb]

Have you dated at all? If not, why not?

[Asker]

I have and felt nothing (didn't feel the magic nor sparkling thing) for any of those men. I'm wondering if I might be having a very low sex drive. I never had a crush in my school years, didn't like anyone in my HS either.

[slatyb]

How do you feel about life in general?

It's also possible you are just searching in the wrong dating pool. How well do you fit in with the people you know?

[MrCommodore]

No Its not weird, just unusual.

[boggboss]

No just means u ain't had sex yet thats all

[exitseven]

These things do not happen on a schedule.

[Jamie05rhs]

No, that wouldn't be weird.

[IsoUser]

I might be extremely frustrated Lol

[Bklynbadboy12]

Not weird at all I think it would be fun

[IHateBeingaMan]

i'm not bothered

[jimmy2]

I would love it