Is it too much to want a woman who loves only one man? It's been my experience that women today want a variety of men rather than one man?

[Anonymous]

[Vesuvius87]

I'm just with my 2nd boyfriend. We've been dating for 5 months.

My first relationship failed so miserably. He wasted my time and at the very end (after draining my years), I find out he never wanted to have kids. Instead he wanted me to become a wealthy business woman; he only wanted business and pleasure; to live off my money and go after my grandma's house. Not just that but he's been scamming other women too and even owes his own mother money. He was a real legitimate narcissistic-sociopath who took pleasure in using people. He owes me over $1,200 he'll never pay me back. I'm not even in the same location or else I would've sued him.

[Vesuvius87]

If my 1st relationship would've been with a normal, caring guy... I would've been with him till old age. I don't like jumping from man to man.
With the horrible thing that happened... obviously I have to block that horrible person and find better, which I did.

[Asker]

I'm sorry that happened to you. Not that I'm trying to minimize anything. But I guess at least it was only 1200 dollars? It sucks that he drained so much of your life. But take solace in the fact that HE LOST. Money can be re-made. A a good person is lost forever in you.

[User2324]

it’s not too much at all! it’s rare to find a person that truly understands the meaning of a monogamous relationship which is pretty sad honestly. a lot of people are too busy trying to get one up on the next person so they don’t look like a fool but being with more than one person is the foolish thing! there’s still hope but you just have to look very hard for it unfortunately.. there’s someone for everyone though!

[User2324]

people who value true love still exist!

[Asker]

I wish I could hit like on this response 10 times

[Anonymous]

Female love is contingent on what that man can provide her. This is a female biological trait and they are all the same.

[Asker]

Not disagreeing with this. But how can a guy be she sure wants him and not JUST what he provides?

[Opinion Owner]

If she has a vagina, she wants you for what you provide. You kind of have to just accept that this is how women love.

[slatyb]

That's not my experience. All my partners have been satisfied with just me. Who are you dating?

[Asker]

Apparently all the wrong ones.🤣😪