What Do I Do With Him?

[DollAlone]

My boyfriend of nine years apparently has this crush on my best friend. He is good friemds with her boyfriend and he is aware that she has slept with a triple digit number of guys. As well as has Herpes. What would make any of that an attraction to someone? Are men that desperate or does he really just not have any care and is thinking with his d*ck?
Im sure many men have liked their ladies closest friends at one poimt but he has gone overboard. He womt talk all day lomg and then she shows up and he becomes a comedian. Its startimg to annoy me

[Anonymous]

As a person that has had a crush during a relationship, having a small brief attraction to someone isn’t always a problem as long as you’re both mature and the person having the attraction deals with it probably. But having a crush is a little different. Having substantial feelings to a person other than your partner means something is wrong with the relationship. I suggest talking to him about it. If he isn’t helpful and/or doesn’t really want to talk about it, then you need to consider the state of the relationship and what it looks like in the long term.

[DollAlone]

Great advice. Thank you

[roy_ricky09]

You can't stop someone if they already have started... You should move on

[Guy13]

It speaks volumes of the quality of man that you are dating…

[Anonymous]

It's hard after that long but he is just going to hurt you, let him catch herpes.