Should I date a 45 year old man, as a 32 year old woman- I don't mean to sound juvenile but society seems to think this is a bad idea?

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He is 45 male. I am 32 Female. Is this seen as a societal boo-boo?

Lliam · Accepted Answer

I don't see that as a problem at all. You're both adults and can decide if you want to be together.

It's not unusual for women to be attracted to older men and for men to be attracted to younger women. But the main thing is that you have a connection. You see eye to eye and like each other. That, in itself, is a gift. I say, go with it.

The most wonderful girlfriend I ever had (aside from my wife) was 30 when I was 37.

Reaper1985 · Accepted Answer

dating/relationship studies show that many couples have a 3 to 15 year age gap. often with a younger female and older male but it can be vise versa.

older males tend to be more stable which is why many females seeking commitment go for them more often.

bones_20 · Accepted Answer

Who the fuck cares what society thinks. Are you really not gonna date someone because people tell you not to? If you wanna date each other, then don’t let other people’s stupidity stop you.

Takaharu · Accepted Answer

Yes just go for it. What society thinks doesn't matter. Its your happiness and your life 😁

Anonymous · Answer

society is dumb. Society had slaves. Society burnt witches. Society is dumb. I assure in years to come, perhaps many, age and dating will not matter. I even think the age of consent will drop to like 16 or 15 in the west. Once you get a certain age you realize how dumb it is because you realize you are still the same person but physically older.

Twalli · Answer

At this point in your lives it's probably fine. If it was the same age difference but he was 35 and you were 22, then I could see the issue. It depends on what stages in life you are. Since you are probably close to being in the same stage personally, the age difference is okay.

Vikkrram · Answer

I want to ask u some questions maam?

1. Do you have feelings for this guy?
2. Do you find him attractive , good looking and his behaviour upto the mark?
3. Do society will give you food and support when the time you need?

AviatorTom · Answer

I don't have a problem with that... if you both get along with each other. My father was 30 years older than my mother, started dating when she was in her 20s, and they were married for 40 years until he died.

DarkWinterNights · Answer

If you were 22 and he was 35 it would be a little ehhh. I personally have a very hard limit at 10 year age difference, preferably 5 years. But the older you get the less important and obvious the age range is.

Birdlegs · Answer

Age doesn’t really matter at that point but it might be weird knowing he was a senior in high school when you were in kindergarten

Honesttguy · Answer

Society doesn't care at that point, its mostly matters when its 30y with 17 below where its illigal

mark000h · Answer

Who cares what other people think. You are an adult, he's an adult. Nothing wrong with that.

slatyb · Answer

You are old enough to make up your own mind. The disadvantages of an older partner are obvious.

888theGreat · Answer

he will have more money and be more mature , plus life experience.. Younger guy will think of himself , expect sex from you whenever he wants it, and cheat.

Anonymous · Answer

It is not someone else's job to judge you or him. Why does it matter? It isn't their business. If you both make each other happy

Anonymous · Answer

Is society going to be in the relationship with you? I don't think you should pursue it, or any relationship till you're ready to view it more maturely. Clearly that's not right now.

h3ll00 · Answer

If it was other way round, people think it is bad Idea. You 32. almost expired as a woman

IsoUser · Answer

Why wouldn't you if you're attracted to the guy, you're an adult?

Zygum · Answer

Don't care about people opinion, as you both are consenting, no problem

Anonymous · Answer

That is a good idea. It is only a bad idea for that age gap if one person is under 18.

Berethor · Answer

By society you mean feminists?

fireforeffect · Answer

That age span is not that bad.

zikooo · Answer

Yes u should. he is expert in various topics

Wise4myage · Answer

Sure, why not?

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