Girls, Why do Shy Guys get rejected more than Jerks and Assholes?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

They just don’t give me the feeling.
Always wants me to plan things and make the move or helps to decide on everything, never really make me feel like theyre actually interested in me and shit we wanna do. Don’t show much emotions, don’t speak so much, too bland for me. Safe to say that shy guys aren’t for me. Doesn’t mean i only like jerks/assholes either, i really avoid those kind of guys.
I’m speaking from experience.

[muscularbumblebee]

The whole ‘nice guys Finnish last’ stereotype maybe. Shy guys are seen as more submissive generally


More submissive usually = less masculine


And therefore less attraction as a dating partner as many women prefer masculine guys at least to an extent.


All stereotypes off course and superficial but usually the case

[Agape93]

Because shy guys generally don't approach, and when they do, they generally suck at it.

[LazerBean]

Because you miss every shot that you don't take.