Girls, Why do Girls avoid Nice Shy Guys so much and Spend more time with Confident Jerks?

[Anonymous]

[GreatVallue]

It goes back to the caveman days. I read a fascinating article written by an anthropologist. It was all about how women got the "upper hand" with sex.

The only cavewomen that would have sex, were the ones "in heat." The bad part of being in heat was you got no sleep, because the lineup of cave-fellas was long.

The good part about being in heat was that no dragon with a brain would harm you. There were tons of cavewomen in the village, so why would the dragon mess with the one surrounded by lots of cave-fellas? That dragon would get its ass kicked.

So men = security. "50 shades" was NOT about a nice wimp.

I watched a video and the woman said: "Don't ask her what restaurant she wants to go to... just tell her which one she's going to."

She's welcome to challenge you on that, and you two can negotiate. But don't come out of the gate being the nice guy. Just let her know that regardless of the restaurant you go to, the dragons better back off. :)

[whereismyjohnny]

I avoid all guys 😂 On the serious side, I don't think we do. A lot of girls would prefer a nice shy nice guy over a confident jerk.

[EmmaMary]

You've obviously being mixing with the wrong circle of women.

[Anonymous]

Shy guys are assholes and confident guys are attractive.

[Asker]

Why are they assholes what do they do?

[fonduegirl]

There was one quiet guy I know who told a girl to "get out of his way"

[Asker]

@anon1903 If he us saying something like that to a Girl he is obviously not Shy.

[fonduegirl]

He was shy enough to mess up presentation

[Asker]

@anon1903 Shy Guys are too afraid to make Remarks like that to a Girl.

[fonduegirl]

Yeah

[Asker]

@anon1903 He sounds like an Asshole, But he doesn't sound Shy if he said that.

[fonduegirl]

Shruggie

[Asker]

@anon1903 Sorry what's Shruggie?, What do you mean?

[fonduegirl]

It means "I don't know"

[Asker]

@anon1903 Oh okay, But as i said he is definitely not Shy if said that to a Girl.

[fonduegirl]

I understand

[Asker]

@anon1903 So do you think all Shy Guys are Assholes or not Genuine or not trustworthy?

[Anonymous]

You’re going to sit their and claim to not have preferences?

[Asker]

I'm not claiming anything.

I'm just asking why does it seem like a lot of Girls do this then?

[fonduegirl]

We'd rather like the antihero

[Asker]

@anon1903 That's Interesting, So the Shy Nice Guy is the Hero?

What makes them the Hero then?

[fonduegirl]

I actually won't date a nice guy, and neither would I go for the bad boy

[fonduegirl]

I like shy guys, as long as they aren't insecure and preachy, like a hero

[Asker]

@anon1903 If a Guy is Shy then he is Insecure.

[fonduegirl]

Did I say that? No.

[Asker]

@anon1903 I know you didn't say it, I'm saying that.

[fonduegirl]

I can accept a shy guy who doesn't think of himself as a loser. It's okay if he doesn't ask me out, but he shouldn't shit talk himself.

[Asker]

@anon1903 If a Guy is Shit talking himself up he definitely isn't that Shy then.

[fonduegirl]

I dunno, man. But I'm glad I've you as my friend to tell me that. 🤗

[Anonymous]

Here we go again.

Same old BS, different day.

[Asker]

What's wrong?

Are you to afraid to answer it?

[Blackcupcake]

how does being confident equal to being a jerk

[Asker]

Never said it did, I'm just talking about Confident Jerks and Nice Shy Guys.

[fonduegirl]

We don't