What is the point of falling in love for the first time at age 28?

[LonelyTimes]

I am 28 and never had a real girlfriend before.

I feel like most women my age have had at least one if not more serious relationships. They carry that relationship baggage while I don't.

In addition, me and a woman can never say we knew each other when we were young. We don't have that sweet sentiment.

Let's say I do find a woman without a romantic past, we still cannot say we knew each other when we were young.

[Anonymous]

I mean you also carry some baggage despite never being in a relationship… you were in love with that Rachel girl that you keep asking us about

[LonelyTimes]

We were never in a real relationship, as she rejected me upon meeting me in person. I think I could of just obsessed over the fact that guy got to be her first everything.

[Opinion Owner]

Still, you had romantic feelings for her and is still obsessing over her after years… That counts as you having a romantic past and it’s also “baggage”. You were still hung up on Rachel even after you met a new girl and started talking to her (the girl whose pic you posted on here). It’s unfair, don’t you think?

[LonelyTimes]

There is no hypothetical situation that exists between me and her if we were to reunite that it would be a sweeter outcome. Plus, how do you know about all this?

[Opinion Owner]

Well what if you meet a new girl who had an ex that was abusive or one that is already married? There won’t be any hypothetical situation where if they were to reunite it will be a sweeter outcome.

I’ve seen you post a lot under different accounts and I empathize with you but the only thing that stopping you from getting a girl is yourself…

[LonelyTimes]

I just cannot get over a woman's romantic past, especially when she has formed bonds with guys from her youth.

[Opinion Owner]

Well then good luck… falling in love is great but you’re missing out only bc you’re not letting yourself fall in love

[LonelyTimes]

Why do you know so much about me?

[Opinion Owner]

I’ve seen you post the same questions a lot under different accounts

[Blackcosmo]

There are still some people out there that still haven't been in a relationship. My older sister is turning 30 this year and she hasn't been in a relationship before. There is always a point of love no matter the age.

[Blackcosmo]

Thanks for the MHO!

[slatyb]

You should change your handle from "LonelyTimes" to "LooneyTunes". Life is not a fairy tale.

[moviedude714]

The world doesn't care about men's problems

[Guy13]

Better than 30…

[LonelyTimes]

Still, me and a woman can never say we knew each other when we were young. Plus, I don't want to take on a woman's previous relationship baggage when I never had a girlfriend myself.