Do you find introverts or extroverts more attractive?

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Levin · Accepted Answer

I don't mind. I'm an introvert.

Introverts I usually find more interesting, you can get better conversations with. They tend to be more reflective and thoughtful. I usually have more in common with them. Relations with an introvert as a fellow introvert can be very calm and peaceful, but a bit boring.

Extroverts warm me up, do the social heavy lifting (cause I can't be arsed with that shit) and provide a good network of friends.

There's pluses and minuses to both.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I don't believe anyone is really either one or the other.
I want a partner who's sociable enough at least to talk to me and engage others that suggests extrovert. But I want a partner that isn't loud, obnoxious, and can engage people personally one on one. That suggests introvert.

NZGirl07 · Accepted Answer

I'm an introvert and my boyfriend is an extrovert. I don't think those qualities sre what attracts me usually. But seeing himself handle social situations with ease is definitely appealing, it is nice when he can bear the brunt for me. But also, I find it satisfying to see how we change one another for the better. He takes me out of my comfort zone sometimes which can be good, but I teach him that he doesn't always need people around, and the importance of introspection.

alice55 · Accepted Answer

Introvert cause I like spending time 1-1 though we need to find something to talk about cause if not that would be awkward since I'm pretty introverted too I just become talkative about topics that interest me and can carry conversation but if not I can't

anniisa97 · Answer

Indifferent. It depends on the person and their qualities.

Some extroverts are annoying because they don’t know how to read the room, when to stop talking.

Some introverts are annoying because it can be a challenge for them to want to try something new, very stuck in their ways.

Blackcosmo · Answer

I'm an introvert/shy so I like it when the other person is an extravert. That way they can sort of balance me out and take the lead.

Anonymous · Answer

I’m an introvert so obviously I vibe more with other introverts but I also like being around extroverts bc they push me outside of my comfort zone. I’ve always dated extroverts so that we can balance each other out and learn from each other.

JoyGirl · Answer

I don’t mind being with either. My boyfriend and I are Introverts. Between the two of us, I think he is a little more social. 😂

Berethor · Answer

Introvert girls are more likely to be virgin, so introvert girls.

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

Extroverted girls give me severe anxiety but introverted girls I just can’t talk to.  So neither actually. I just prefer being left alone most of the time

one1wild00 · Answer

I'm an introvert "quieter person" and I like low key activities as well as "adventure" so I generally look for introverts.

ColHathi · Answer

I think there's some really inaccurate examples of introverts and extroverts in that chart.

Intothevoid666 · Answer

I think extroverts but introverts can also be very attractive. I tend to like women that gravitate to one extreme or the other tho the most.

aggravatedbytchx · Answer

I’m an introvert so I’d like a man introverted like me.

exitseven · Answer

I don;t use it as a criteria.

Aurora1010 · Answer

Extroverted guys

serious · Answer

Introverts

Anonymous · Answer

As an introvert I prefer extroverts.

dreamstar72 · Answer

Im in the middle

TrillXHippy · Answer

As an introvert I don’t care

Anonymous · Answer

I like ambiverts more than introvs/extrovs

UpdateGloomyNights_ · Answer

Neither

Anonymous · Answer

Indifferent

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