My girlfriend never wants to hang what does that mean?

[Anonymous]

Me and my girlfriend have been together for sometime and throughout the seven months we’ve been on only two dates. I’ve asked multiple times to hangout but it always turn into an argument (even though she hangs out with her other friends).

[SueShe]

If she does not want to HANG, it is because she is afraid to lose her head. Imagine the rope around her neck. That leaves a heck of a nasty mark. How do you justify it?

Joke aside, she does not want to HANG OUT because she has her own reasons. Perhaps that she is uncomfortable about hanging out or she does not want to be seen in your company, or she does not want to get intoxicate with alcohol.

There is only one reason to find out and that is to ask her for her reasons.

My suspicion is that if she does hang out with her own friends and not with you, that would mean that she is not at ease around you when in public. Did you ever give her a reason why she is not comfortable? Were you drunk? Did you misbehave? Were you loud?

Perhaps the reason is with you and not with her.

[Asker]

We argue a lot and it would get pretty bad, So could that be a reason?

[SueShe]

I only see a couple of reasons why she does not want to hang out with you.

1. She is uncomfortable around your friends if you go out with them
2. She may not feel at ease in your company
3. She is shy in your company
4. She does not like the places you chose
5. You don't pay attention to her as much as you do to your smartphone
6. You misbehave
7. She has had bad past experiences with a date

There are so many different possibilities that it would take too long to list them all.

[alice55]

She most likely doesn't like you and / or is cheating on you. You should break up I think she really doesn't respect you.

[Sparkie460]

You're not boyfriend and girlfriend. If you have been together for 7 months and only went on 2 dates, she's not interested in you like you are with her. Dump her and find a real girlfriend that wants to spend time with you

[Asker]

Well why does she always text me Goodmorning and telling me how much she loves me?

[Sparkie460]

It's like she wants to keep you at arms length so you are available whenever she wants to be with you

[Asker]

So it’s basically fake love?

[Sparkie460]

Yes. Basically. She's leading you on just to use you as a "fill in " when she's not with someone else.

[Asker]

Thanks for the hard truth.

[Sparkie460]

I'm sorry. I'm just going by what you said and my experience with women.

[Drumlin2001]

Dosen't sound like a very productive relationship. How often do you do you talk/communicate?

[Asker]

We text 24/7 everyday

[Anonymous]

You aren't her boyfriend, she considers you as someone to pass the time with in between dicks. She's probably in bed with another guy now.

[Asker]

But she said she loves me?

[Opinion Owner]

Does it sound like she does? Sorry to be harsh bro, but she has only been out twice with you and constantly finds excuses to put you off. Find another girl who actually wants to spend time with you.

[Asker]

How come she making all these future plans with me? what’s the purpose?

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe she has you as a backup. You really should find a girl who wants to spend time with you. If this girl of yours really cared, she would want to spend as much time with you as you do with her. She's either got someone else or she has major problems.

[Asker]

Okay but me and her use to argue throughout those months. So maybe is that’s a possibility as to why she didn’t wanna hang?

[Anonymous]

Dump her why waste your life with ghos drama! She's all talk but never acts on what she says.

[Opinion Owner]

With this drama**

[Guy13]

Ain’t your girlfriend

[Anonymous]

Does she live close by you

[Asker]

Yeah sort of