Cheating or Not?

[Anonymous]

If a guy goes behind your back and has text messaged on their phone that are from him and a female and you ask him who (name) is and he says he doesn't know, but she is on Badoo, is he hiding something because he's lying?

[Wise4myage]

Yes, he is definitely hiding something and lying, because how else would that girl get his number?

[ashh_ley]

That would be my first suspicion but if he's an honest person then he'd show the messages 🤷‍♀️

[Asker]

Right, he has an app that when he gets a message it shows up as whatever app he puts it under. He claims he doesn't erase anything in his phone but when he falls asleep with it on don't judge me but yes I go through it because he lies about where he is going, what he does, and who he is with! So I guess I am the stupid one for staying!

[ashh_ley]

No judgement, I go through my boyfriend's phone as well. We tend to put up with what they put us through but if you have suspicions he's cheating then it may be true. Sorry to say it. It's best to trust your gut feeling.