Is it cheating?

[Lottydotty]

I've debated all these with girls n guys stuck in that nah they good for me tho phase. Like I don't know its the worst thing to see people in. I do get it but I hate it too much to let myself get near it.

Master the bait on random girls from social media?

Watch and like or follow social media girls?

Master the bait while watching pahorn.

Master the bait while not with you

Immediately turn on from somebody else

If they leave their hair down when not with you

[Summeroflove]

There is two extremes of people number one is people who see obvious signs of someone cheating and ignore it. Sometimes people also see everything as a sign someone’s cheating even when they’re innocent. Sometimes someone can go from one extreme to the other after being hurt too many times.

Cheating can look different for everyone so don’t get me wrong some are better at hiding it then others. I will say a lot of people don’t catch on to cheating at first it’s not until it’s happened many times they they finally find out. There is exceptions of people who are either sloppy or someone was just very observant so they noticed something.

Red flags is someone becoming more secretive. Over compensating sex, buying gifts, romantic gestures, and things of that nature. A lot of times it could be a sign they feel bad or on the other hand if they are a dark personality lacking genuine empathy or remorse trying to cover for it.

A lot of times cheating starts when a relationship is doing well. But eventually you’ll notice them withdraw they become more resentful more times then not because they’re comparing you to every man or woman they have slept with or otherwise cheated with whether it was emotionally. They will also stop wanting to be intimate. Maybe they just got finished with someone else so they don’t want you to see. Maybe they have become completely turned off even disgusted by you.

[PeachyPie93]

If a guy ever turns me down because he is too busy getting his rocks off to internet whores I think that is cheating. Also a guy who pays for OF content or actually interacts with a girl online, I count that as cheating. Watching porn when I am not around or he is really pent up, I don't really care too much about it.

[strateguy632]

I love how clear you are about unfair standards that gals expect

[PeachyPie93]

@strateguy632 Hmm? What is unfair? I said he can watch porn but if it gets to the point he is blowing off real sex to jerk off or paying and interacting, its cheating.
I was in a 12 year relationship I didn't once masturbate while in the relationship. So there isn't really anything unfair in what I said.

[strateguy632]

Gals nitpick all these rules and then say they are not "in the mood" get it?