Is this basically cheating?

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OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

This is the real world: when I find someone and decide that I want to spend the rest of my life with them, it doesn't mean that all of the other girls are on the planet will now look ugly to me. That's not how it works and that is not what makes people honor their commitments. People honor their commitments even though other people are still attractive because our relationship is more important than lust.

ZackBan · Accepted Answer

Yeah I sometimes get a boner when I sneeze so getting one looking at a girl is way more than normal for me it happens quite often. I don't necessarily have any fantasies going on about them or even interested in them so no it's not cheating it's being human

AlienParasite · Accepted Answer

As anyone normal knows, getting excited by someone attractive it's natural and not easy to control. Guys get bones and girls get a bit wet. Guys' arousal it's to noticiable they can't hide they can't hide they are aroused. Girls' it's so hard to tell they can even pretend not to be aroused. Still both happen and are natural, and it's not cheating.

Deydey12345 · Accepted Answer

I can't understand girls logic..

They say they dont get if he gets hard by watching naked girls online BUT according to girls body language they clearly mind when their boyfriend gets hard because the girl in the train has a nice ass and he's watching.. Yet "hes not cheating" in either situation.

WHERE IS THE LOGIC?

Jjpayne · Answer

That shows that your body is working... Girls seriously if you get wet and your nipples get hard from staring at a guy with pecs.. Like young Arnold, I won't hold that against you that just means your body is working normally. Now it's acting on that where it's wrong but being turned on or attracted by it, it's completely normal

Anoniemus · Answer

Why was he looking? No one is arguing about how erections are caused. The issue is WHY is he looking. Based on that, people differ.

I think it's sleazy. He can't help his erection: he can help that he looked which caused the erection.

Anonymous · Answer

No that is not cheating. Now if a guy is always looking elsewhere and not totally into his girlfriend that's a problem. That means he doesn't have a real connection with her.

ChgzDaniel · Answer

I think it would only be cheating if you kissed or did anything sexual with them. Sometimes you can't help but like what you see. It's whether or not you act on it that makes it cheating.

Bee-Hatch · Answer

You've no more control over that, than I'd have control over getting wet if I was around someone I found very attractive. It's the not acting on it that counts.

qzar24 · Answer

Boners are an involuntary physical response. We get them multiple times a night regardless of the content of our dreams. Plus, there are several studies that show men are at near constant state of some level of arousal regardless of the situation.

jgokgotit · Answer

No, not if that is all that happens. We men cannot control what arouses us. However, we can control whether or not we act on it. Getting a boner by itself is just a biological reaction.

slatyb · Answer

That's absurd. Arousal is not under voluntary control. It's cheating of he goes home with the other woman. If I were dating a woman with your attitude, I probably would.

Anonymous · Answer

That is one of the most dumbest things I have ever read any guy that wants to date her needs to run for the hills she sounds controlling and like she wouldn’t let her man breathe unless she gave him permission too.

Hurlyburly · Answer

Its only cheating if you also happen to casually stumble and fall on top of her. With both of you being naked ofc.

CocoBat · Answer

No it's not, it's an uncontrolable bodily function, from what I understand he doesn't even have to actually be aroused to get one, as long as he doesn't act on any urge it's all good

Rangers · Answer

Not even close, how am I supposed to help it? I can't help something I'm not in control of, I AM in control of my actions though, you can blame me for my actions, not my body functions🙄

JohnAlaska43 · Answer

Well not cheationg as long as ke keeps it in his pants. If he's rubbing it then yeah its not cool.

Avicenna · Answer

God, that isn't cheating, except in an alternate universe

Wowgirl30q · Answer

Golden Sucker

Thatsamazing · Answer

This is the stupidest thing I've seen all day. Well done, Brittany Ventilation Filter-- you're making the world a dumber, lower place.

Dxam0nd · Answer

Its just why are you looking at the other girl in the first place. If you wasn't looking you wouldn't have got the boner.

Countrywildmangirl · Answer

HELLYES that is cheating. If people dont think that is cheating they are fuckimg lunatic

Anonymous · Answer

It is not cheating but if a guy is having a boner over another woman it doesn't say much for your relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

Cheating when person have real sex with other person then his/her SO. Rest of it is obsesive controlling behaviour and you should consider break up...

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

If you and your girlfriend are watch romantic movie and she get romantically excited, is that cheating?

Liam_Hayden · Answer

No. Having an involuntary reaction is not cheating.

Xylem1992 · Answer

The women clearly doesn't know how easy it is to get a boner. I just dont know what else to say

Anonymous · Answer

Hardly. It's just biological. If you were sticking said boner into her, different story. If you were lusting after, flirting with, and trying to feel up, different story. But you're not. So no.

Firerubies · Answer

You can’t help how your body functions definitely not cheating!

Jupiter1 · Answer

Having a boner doesn’t necessarily mean it’s cheating.

Yammy · Answer

Wouldn't cheating be acting on that feeling of arousal with that person though?

The_man_whol_aughs · Answer

Yes like how to step on the floor and kill millions of bacteria , it's genocide and you need to be punished

TohhhruAi · Answer

@ct_cd my boners are only for you don't worry

JesseJayNeak · Answer

Whoever said this is not a clown but the entire circus

Butchiew56 · Answer

Kind of but when a woman sees a guy she can't take her eyes off of is that cheating?

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

Personally, I wouldn't consider that cheating.

Phoenix98 · Answer

@OlderAndWiser Pretty much his opinion.

MackToday · Answer

She's possessive and childish and that's dumb.

Ripper_E · Answer

Guys have little to no control over that

OfDeath · Answer

Then I'm cheating right now

BoxySama · Answer

It's only cheating if he masturbates to her

Joker_ · Answer

That's basically cheating

ShannaBella10 · Answer

No, guys have no control over that

ChiPaPa · Answer

No. She's dumb.

BronzedAdonis · Answer

cheating

rockrewls · Answer

No it is not.

Slim57 · Answer

No you can't help it

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