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This is the real world: when I find someone and decide that I want to spend the rest of my life with them, it doesn't mean that all of the other girls are on the planet will now look ugly to me. That's not how it works and that is not what makes people honor their commitments. People honor their commitments even though other people are still attractive because our relationship is more important than lust.
Yeah I sometimes get a boner when I sneeze so getting one looking at a girl is way more than normal for me it happens quite often. I don't necessarily have any fantasies going on about them or even interested in them so no it's not cheating it's being human
As anyone normal knows, getting excited by someone attractive it's natural and not easy to control. Guys get bones and girls get a bit wet. Guys' arousal it's to noticiable they can't hide they can't hide they are aroused. Girls' it's so hard to tell they can even pretend not to be aroused. Still both happen and are natural, and it's not cheating.
I can't understand girls logic..
They say they dont get if he gets hard by watching naked girls online BUT according to girls body language they clearly mind when their boyfriend gets hard because the girl in the train has a nice ass and he's watching.. Yet "hes not cheating" in either situation.
WHERE IS THE LOGIC?
Sorry i meant "girls dont get *JEALOUS* when their boyfriend watches porn online BUT... ect"
If he can watch naked girls online then let him watch the hot girl in the restaurant next to you.. he's just watching her tits he's not cheating..
Why not letting him watch it in real life then?
Why getting mad when a friend dresses sexy but not getting mad if she's naked in porn..
No logic.. you're dumb..
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That shows that your body is working... Girls seriously if you get wet and your nipples get hard from staring at a guy with pecs.. Like young Arnold, I won't hold that against you that just means your body is working normally. Now it's acting on that where it's wrong but being turned on or attracted by it, it's completely normal
Why was he looking? No one is arguing about how erections are caused. The issue is WHY is he looking. Based on that, people differ.
I think it's sleazy. He can't help his erection: he can help that he looked which caused the erection.
No that is not cheating. Now if a guy is always looking elsewhere and not totally into his girlfriend that's a problem. That means he doesn't have a real connection with her.
I think it would only be cheating if you kissed or did anything sexual with them. Sometimes you can't help but like what you see. It's whether or not you act on it that makes it cheating.
You've no more control over that, than I'd have control over getting wet if I was around someone I found very attractive. It's the not acting on it that counts.
Boners are an involuntary physical response. We get them multiple times a night regardless of the content of our dreams. Plus, there are several studies that show men are at near constant state of some level of arousal regardless of the situation.
No, not if that is all that happens. We men cannot control what arouses us. However, we can control whether or not we act on it. Getting a boner by itself is just a biological reaction.
That's absurd. Arousal is not under voluntary control. It's cheating of he goes home with the other woman. If I were dating a woman with your attitude, I probably would.
That is one of the most dumbest things I have ever read any guy that wants to date her needs to run for the hills she sounds controlling and like she wouldn’t let her man breathe unless she gave him permission too.
Its only cheating if you also happen to casually stumble and fall on top of her. With both of you being naked ofc.
Happens all the time. I sweat, it's not what it looks like.
No it's not, it's an uncontrolable bodily function, from what I understand he doesn't even have to actually be aroused to get one, as long as he doesn't act on any urge it's all good
Not even close, how am I supposed to help it? I can't help something I'm not in control of, I AM in control of my actions though, you can blame me for my actions, not my body functions🙄
Well not cheationg as long as ke keeps it in his pants. If he's rubbing it then yeah its not cool.
God, that isn't cheating, except in an alternate universe

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This is the stupidest thing I've seen all day. Well done, Brittany Ventilation Filter-- you're making the world a dumber, lower place.
Its just why are you looking at the other girl in the first place. If you wasn't looking you wouldn't have got the boner.
HELLYES that is cheating. If people dont think that is cheating they are fuckimg lunatic
I can't tell if you're joking or not.
@Thatsamazing ok here I'm not joking that is cheating
Oh... oh sis. You're so special.
@Thatsamazing how and why am. I special and why call me sis? Do we know each other?
It is not cheating but if a guy is having a boner over another woman it doesn't say much for your relationship.
Guys can get boners just from riding the subway lol, it doesn't "say" anything
Cheating when person have real sex with other person then his/her SO.
Rest of it is obsesive controlling behaviour and you should consider break up...
If you and your girlfriend are watch romantic movie and she get romantically excited, is that cheating?
No. Having an involuntary reaction is not cheating.
The women clearly doesn't know how easy it is to get a boner. I just dont know what else to say
Hardly. It's just biological. If you were sticking said boner into her, different story. If you were lusting after, flirting with, and trying to feel up, different story. But you're not. So no.
You can’t help how your body functions definitely not cheating!
Having a boner doesn’t necessarily mean it’s cheating.
Wouldn't cheating be acting on that feeling of arousal with that person though?
Yes like how to step on the floor and kill millions of bacteria , it's genocide and you need to be punished
@ct_cd my boners are only for you don't worry
Whoever said this is not a clown but the entire circus
Kind of but when a woman sees a guy she can't take her eyes off of is that cheating?
Personally, I wouldn't consider that cheating.
@OlderAndWiser Pretty much his opinion.
She's possessive and childish and that's dumb.
Guys have little to no control over that
Then I'm cheating right now
It's only cheating if he masturbates to her
That's basically cheating
No, guys have no control over that
No. She's dumb.
cheating
No it is not.
No you can't help it
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