Would you date a waiter?

[Anonymous]

I had hung out with a waiter a few times and then it was pretty much downhill. He was too insecure and blamed me for his own problems. About 2 months later another waiter said he wants to go on a date with me. I said yes but I’m not that thrilled tbh. Also I have a good background, have received international education and have a well-off family. Am I making a mistake? Not trying to sound like a brat but I just don’t want to waste my time again

[Nads111]

If he is currently studying something and plans on having a good career eventually or if he has an educational background and doesn't intend on being a waiter forever and is just doing it in the meantime until he finds a better job, then yes.. if not then no.

[Asker]

He told me he has a degree in tourism but also he worked as a waiter for like 2 years… anyway I think I might just leave it after meeting for the first time if it is too awkward 😝

[chriss]

So basically a career would bother you when it comes to a relationship?

[Asker]

@chriss well maybe if it seems they are not leaving that profession and if they have different expectations from life

[Nads111]

@chriss Yes a career would bother me simply because I'm a career driven person and I would expect the same from a potential partner.

[Nads111]

Yeah just give it a chance and see how it goes and then u can decide whether you wanna continue seeing him or not.

[chriss]

@Nads111 I think that every job serves its purpose but we all look for different things when it comes to a relationship.

[Nads111]

@chriss its just that i like ambitious guys.. and yeah we do all look for different things.

[Whatever2929292]

I think just because you had it bad with one person does not mean he will be bad as well. Give him a chance if you said yes maybe this will go better. I assume that you aren't dating him for his money anyways.

Best of luck! Hope it goes well. Not all waiters are the same. I would date a waitress

[whereismyjohnny]

Yes. I don’t judge people by their job or profession tbh.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Of course!

If I was single.

My boyfriend was a waiter when he was 19-20 before he went into the business field.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

I would date a waitress.

[Nahid1707]

Waitress you meant for a guy correct?

[lofii]

Waitresses are pretty hot so yeah

[Anonymous]

If she asked me out.. why not?

[StevieNix]

In a heartbeat.

[CloudMassacre]

Yes.