22 year old guy hooking up with 34 year old single mom?

[Anonymous]

I'm a 22 year old guy who used to work at a graveyard security shift. Over the time, there was a hot Salvadoran girl who kept eyeing me once in a while. She looked young and me not knowing her age at the time didn't think much of it. One day on my lunch break, she sat next to me on the couch and we started striking conversation. After work she even came up to me and asked for my number. She initiated the first text and asked if I wanted to go to Starbucks with her after work which was around 3am. Of course I said yes and and we went on the small date. We drank our coffee in my car and started chatting about life and work. Little time after that we ended up kissing and hooking up in the car. Afterwards on the car drive back to work so I could drop her off to her car, she starts asking me you don't mind that I'm 34 right? and at the moment I just blatantly said no. I drop her off and we exchange Instagrams. When I arrive home and check her profile out I noticed she has 7 year old son. I just realized that I made out and had sex with a 34 year old single mom. She already feels like we're in a relationship as she keeps saying she likes me a lot. Should I avoid her at all cost, or keep excepting her dates?

[Anonymous]

This is your lesson. Why are you having sex with a woman you barely know anything about? I know this is what most young men have been taught, but why not stop following the crowd?

This is what you have left yourself open to. False allegations... she can claim you are the father of her next child. You said you ended up hooking up.. you didn't. She planned it all from the first time she saw you. When you take pleasure down from it's pedestal, you will discover it's not worth it. Run run as fast and far away as possible...

[maximumpower]

she's a single mom. so what?
no problem with continuing to accept her dates, but don't pressure for anything more than she's willing to offer.
avoid meeting her son for anything beyond small talk and limited acquaintence.
don't be surprised if you suddenly stop hearing from you.

[Sixgunsound]

She was honest with you, you said it didn’t bother you, now it suddenly does? She would be justified in being angry with you after you said it didn’t bother you. Post-nut clarity sucks sometimes, but she didn’t take advantage of you.

[Avicenna]

You need to handle this delicately since you work with her. Don’t let it get to a relationship and don’t get her pregnant.

[Anonymous]

My spider sense is tingling. I'd find out if she's an American citizen. She might be trying to get her hooks into you. Make sure she's not got any drug cartel connections. She might be grooming you to be a mule.

[Eugene_JKR]

Older women like younger boys, especially at the age between 30 -35 that is when their libido is at highest.
I think this is wrong

[TransAm85]

U r right. I am almost 37 and I'm looking at other guys b/c my 45 yr old husband needs Viagra! He can't do it like he used to!

[Straight2thepoint]

No brother. Them Salvadoran chick's are bad news. Trust me.

[harrison102]

When I was 25, I was sleeping with a 45 year old woman lol

[KrakenAttackin]

DO NOT get her pregnant. I would bet anything she has stopped taking the pill.

[Anonymous]

yikes man I don't know, maybe explain to her you don't know about being a dad

[Guy13]

Sounds like University days…

[Anonymous]

There are no rules. Do what feels right.

[legalboxers]

Im seeing what the issue is here

[PatriceONeal]

Gross. Also. Good for you.