Relationship advice?

[Anonymous]

What should I do if my boyfriend suddenly becomes distant towards me but keeps talking with other people?

[serious]

Is this actually happening in your life or are you asking this question in hypothetical sense, like if this happens in future?

[Asker]

It's actually happening and we've been together for 6 months and 18 days

[serious]

Okay, well there can be many reason why one partner can become distant from the other. In your case, I will list out some possibilities.

1. He has now lost that interest in you. He doesn't find you interesting or appealing anymore, maybe he now he thinks you did not turn out to be the person he had expected when the relationship began.

2. It could be some aspects of your personality that does not appeal to him.

3. He is now attracted to some other woman and he likes spending time with her. This is just one of the reasons why he would have become distant from you.

4. He himself has some unresolved issues, some problem in his life and right now he cannot concentrate on the relationship with you and hence has become distant.

[serious]

Does this answer your question?

[Asker]

Yeah thanks I just wasn't sure cause when we would hangout he would always he never wants to leave me alone or be away from me but he won't text me no more and I had a feeling he's cheating but I'm not sure and I don't want to accuse him without evidence

[serious]

Yes you should not accuse him of cheating. Unless you have solid evidence or proof for the same. Anyways, even if he is not cheating and is just attracted to some other woman and is just talking to her that still indicates he has lost interest in you.

Even if he is not attracted to anyone else, it is still possible that he lost interest in you. Doesn't like you anymore.

Either way this is not good.

[Asker]

I don't know what to do because I ask him if he still likes me or his he doesn't and I told him if he has lost feelings it's ok I'm not gonna make him stay in a relationship with someone he no longer has feelings for and he keeps telling me he still likes me

[serious]

Okay so now it depends on how much you know him and trust him. If you asked him upfront and he directly tells you that he still likes you then that means chances of him being attracted to someone else is low.

Yes he may be talking to other people, even females but that doesn't necessarily mean he has to be attracted to them. Maybe he is just talking normally, maybe he is just venting something with them.

In that case, it may be possible to ignite the lost spark. Although it maybe very difficult though

[Asker]

We've been friends since we were five and go together just in November the 20th and we talk in person if we wanna ask somthing

[serious]

Okay

[serious]

I hope that you will be able to manage things. Good luck.

[mandyfire98]

That's a tell tale sign of him not being happy in the relationship. I'm normally distant towards the end of a relationship. For me it means it's at the end.

[boobliker]

talk to him asking WHY?

[Sam_25]

Expiry date is over for this relationship

[Guy13]

Ask him why?🤷🏻‍♂️

[jahaims]

Talk to him.