I never really tried dating until 21, just me?

[Anonymous]

I turned 21 the other week and I've never really been all too interested in a relationship or tried at all. Recently I feel very lonely, I need someone to love and hug. So I decided to try get some guys.

I'm not being cocky but I'm fairly attractive but I just have to compliment a guy I think is hot and he just falls for me, I've had more sex in the last month than in my life and I regret not going out my way before

Anyone else done this?

[Ευδεμονια]

I sincerely think you did the right thing if this is letting you feel better. You felt the need of love and company, hope you now feel satisfied (or better at least).
Sure for a woman that proposes to others is a bit easier than for a man, since disposability for a man is almost always guaranteed.
But if I can give you an advice, I suggest you to try create relationships not only based on sex but try to bound to you someone reliable to build something with.

I can relate for the need of love, when I was around 20 started feeling the same, while before I was almost uninterested. But I didn’t have the same luck and I filled my life with university and work and only very recently I tried dating (with no success).

[Anonymous]

Well I think that you having a bunch of sex with men is going to cause more problems. I think until you want something more meaningful that you should stay out it before you either get yourself and/or someone else hurt.

The Bible says not to have sex until marriage and having sex outside of marriage besides a few minutes of pleasure has ALL kinds of problems I could go on for days. It is also frankly degenerate.

Wanting someone to hug nothing wrong with that. But if you are with men who are interested in sex they don't really care about you.

I think you just want to use men for sex but really don't want anything else

[Asker]

Wouldn't say degenerate, just like sex and I don't plan on carrying on like this.

[Opinion Owner]

Asker, exactly you are using them for sex. You need to repent of your sins. You asked for a answer and I gave you a answer if you don't like it then I don't know what to tell you

[Shamalien]

What young women need to understand is that getting sex is a piece of cake, guys give sex out like candy. Getting a man who will commit and stay with you is tough…way, way more tough than young women realize. You need to be realistic. Those hot guys who will fuck you now will dump you like hot garbage in your late 20s / early 30s

[Kaneki05]

Wish sex was that easy for me. Then again I would rather taking cuddling with a long term partner anyday. Not like I can get either lol.

[Dontaaaa]

No me, but I have a female friend that did start dating until she met someone at age twenty.

It's more common that you might think and it's probably more ideal tbh.

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