Is it ok to not want to date anyone?

[Anonymous]

i am tired of being with people it is exhausting I just want to be alone, they just add weight to my life

[dynamicyandere]

There’s nothing wrong with taking some time for yourself. It’ll help you clear your head and spark some passion back into your life.


If the time comes where you feel like dating again, take the time to get to know someone better before committing to anything. For every relationship you found was exhausting, find out why. Learn from every relationship you had in the past so you can make wiser decisions in the future.


I wish you the best with your life journey.

[RuthlessAggression]

Well, by definition, the only reason we date/marry is because supposedly the bible says it's WRONG to have kids, out of wedlock

The only reason the human race, i said HUMAN race, not blacks, not whites, not Asians, etc.. i said HUMAN race, is to reproduce. Other than that, why are we here. If there's something else out there and we haven't reached it yet, then that's fine but, until then, right now, our only real reason to be here, is to keep the human race, going.

So, you're saying well, why do we need to marry/date then. Well, that's what i just said, the bible says it's wrong to have kids out of wedlock. so, it's all about whether you believe the bible is right or not.

Should people only have kids, while married...

[Xoxocutekitty]

Yes, totally normal after a few 'bad' experiences.

Dating gets easier when we learn to cut the bs early, often, and we 'deal with' situations before they become situationships. Sometimes we can't do that if we're terrified of being alone, terrified of not being liked, or doubting our own self worth in shitty situationships. Being single is often the only reset and it helps you create inner peace first.

[Loth2770]

Yes it is ok. Take time to improve yourself and grow as person. Then one day you’ll wake up and realize that you are different person than you used to be and a relationship will less exhausting and more rewarding. Give it a few months or years and then check back to see if you want to try again.

[Anonymous]

It's OK for you. It may not be OK for all around you.