Is it normal for white men to be interested only in Asian women?

[Anonymous]

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Look, bro, if you have a problem figuring out whether you are for Asian babes or white girls, then you ain't a white man.

[Anonymous]

If it’s ONLY Asian girls specifically then it’s a bit weird and borderline fetishization. I get people having preferences but if you go after someone specially only because of their race then it’s not cool. I’m Asian and I’ve had people going after me to date/hook up because they apparently have “yellow fever”

[WhiteBoyChill]

From an Asian girl’s perspective, would you say there is a fetishization problem among white guys?

funny thing is as a white guy myself I only see Asian girls being fetishized on the internet.

[Opinion Owner]

@WhiteBoyChill I’ve had a couple of white and black guys hitting on me persistently only bc I’m Asian, they keep saying that I’m exotic looking and they don’t even bother to learn more about my background. While I appreciate the transparency of them just wanting to hit, I don’t appreciate being seen as just a bucket list.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Yeah but does it make you uncomfortable and stuff? I imagine it does because you’d rather someone have an interest in you personally than just some sexual fixation

[Opinion Owner]

@WhiteBoyChill yes it does lol

[WhiteBoyChill]

But what do you think about the white guys on this site when they talk about Asian girls?

[Opinion Owner]

@WhiteBoyChill don’t really pay attention to them. I’ve some who are fetishizing Asians, some who simply have a preference for Asians - nothing out of the ordinary tbh

[WhiteBoyChill]

I don’t know. I just find it annoying though because they act as though all Asian women are the same. Which just isn’t the case. East Asian women look totally different than Southeast Asian women.

And just like with any other race there are going to be Asian women that are attractive and others who aren’t.

And to be fair, I know my earlier comment might’ve sounded racist so I do apologize but the point I was trying to illustrate was that not all Asian people have the same facial features and structure, so the ones white guys focus on and see in magazines/tv aren’t an accurate reflection for all Asian women as a whole

[Opinion Owner]

@WhiteBoyChill that’s very true and don’t worry you didn’t come across as racist by any means. Most people think Asian = East Asian lol and I feel like the rest of Asia are under represented in the media.

[WhiteBoyChill]

And that’s the thing. When most white guys talk about being in love with Asians they usually only seem to be focused on Japanese and Koreans, even though Filipinas look totally different

[WhiteBoyChill]

But in regards to what I prefer, I’d say there definitely is some merit to be had towards Asians since the dating culture does tend to be much healthier but regardless, its not necessarily a good idea as a white guy to spend all your time fantasizing about girls overseas when you could spend your time trying to find someone you’re compatible with more locally.

And that’s I guess the issue I have with these guys. All they do is idolize Asian women in their heads and cast blame on white women. It’s just so toxic to see

[WhiteBoyChill]

They claim there’s no women available for them when the truth is most women just feel turned off by their personalities.

It just bothers me when I see so many men coming up with excuses and refusing to work on embettering themselves.

I used to have my share of issues as well but I just decided to try and work through them instead of finding other people around me (like white women) to blame

[Opinion Owner]

@WhiteBoyChill yes, couldn’t have said it better. It becomes a problem when they start putting down women of other races in favor of Asians simply because of their fetish/fantasies. Asian Americans are also completely different from mainland Asians.

[WhiteBoyChill]

But just look at the asker of this question. He just goes around insulting anyone who dares to disagree with him

[Asker]

@WhiteBoyChill Look, white boy, you wouldn't be an incel if you weren't an autistic, insufferable and racist little shit. I know you have no life outside the internet because a type like you come back home with no teeth in mouth the first time you go outside. It's too bad that here we can only insult you to make you sure you're not welcome and must shut up.

[Asker]

Would come back*

[KelleyNice]

It is normal but it is a minority. Other than Asians, about 10% of men would only be interested in Asians; however, a substantial minority of men or even a majority might be attracted to a higher percentage of Asians than other races.

[Chris_7565]

It's pretty common on Reddit. There's an entire Asian network dedicated to Asian women, and there's a lot of white guys giving them attention constantly.
I like them a lot, but I also like other types of women as well.

[Asker]

I love Latinas as well, but I think I developed a strong and unbreakable bond with Asian girls. 😆

[Avicenna]

I don’t think too many of them are only interested in Asian women, but everyone has their own preferences, so it‘s no big deal. Seems to me it’s really limiting your dating pool, though.

[Anonymous]

Perfectly normal. Asian women are some of the most beautiful, sweet and "relationship material" type women in the world. So attractive.

[Iandroid]

You are not lying.

[Asker]

Agreed. 💯

[silvermoon84]

It’s both normal and perfectly fine. You’re free to like whoever you want

[Marianna546]

exaclyyyyy

[FilmGuy93]

It seems to happen a fair amount. And it's not like Asian women don't have a soft spot for white men.

[NamerOfStars]

I don't know about ONLY, but they do seem very popular.

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

They are more conservative and less abusive in terms of physical and emotional domestic violence. Amber heard and alongside many other western women are the same way.

[Blackcosmo]

Asian girls are gorgeous but if the face is what you go for rather then the personality then it's your choice.

[kobeni]

Sounds more like perversion than interest, to be judgmental about it.

[Asker]

That's exactly what a butthurt white girl would say.

[kobeni]

You asked, I answered. Dunno why you think I'm the one mad about it

[Marianna546]

Well I don't know really

[Guy13]

It is in these day and times in America’s culture. It’s about the only group of people or Nations left with Conservative values and decency.

[Lionman95]

No I think it´s some kind of fetish but nothing that´s commonly shared.

[Anonymous]

When I think Asian woman I think white men Lol.
I rarely see a Asian woman with a Asian guy

[WhiteBoyChill]

You must be bullshitting. Most Asian women are in Asian countries with Asian guys

[Opinion Owner]

I'm in America and what I see is that

[WhiteBoyChill]

Because America definitely has a majority of the world’s Asian women

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

I don't get people who limit by race. That is so 1980s/90s. It's fucking 2022

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

Unless you were raised by a cult of religious or rural hawks then sure

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

Get with the times

[Asker]

No, I'm not going to argue with an autist.

[zagor]

No most white men are interested in any hooha with a decent container.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Not really. They have squinty eyes and small tits a lot of the time

[Asker]

And you have a small peepee and are a manlet. 😆

[WhiteBoyChill]

Evidence?

[Asker]

As a short, reserved, traditional, Christian, conservative, American white male are there any women for me or are my chances of finding someone low? ↗

[WhiteBoyChill]

I never professed to either of those things

[Asker]

You're full of self-serving excuses just like a drug addict or a 600lb person. 😆

The good thing is that you'll never reproduce.

[WhiteBoyChill]

I like how we’ve made this conversation about me when you were asking questions about yourself

[Asker]

It's because you're insufferable, arrogant and extremely dumb.

[WhiteBoyChill]

So now we’re just resorting to petty insults without proper context. Gotcha.

All because I don’t support your fetish.

I never said all Asian girls had squinty eyes but the point I was trying to make is that not all of them share the same facial features and structure that you’re used to seeing.

[Asker]

"All because I don’t support your fetish."

Do you think I need validation from an actual incel? Get a fucking grip, loser.

[WhiteBoyChill]

You definitely don’t need validation but you do need to get an actual life. Obsessing over any type of women is just pathetic and desperate

[Asker]

Dude, you're actually an incel. You have no place telling others to get a life. If you had a life, you wouldn't be a porn addicted incel in the first place.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Not sure you’re understanding what an incel is but whatever makes u feel better I guess 🤷‍♂️

[Asker]

Well, women around you know better. You're just too narrow minded and stuck in your shitty beliefs, they see it as a huge turn off.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Very well then

[WhiteBoyChill]

And your update makes no sense by the way. Considering most white men are still with white women

[SlothySlob]

Don't lump me in with the rest of you freaks.

[Asker]

Of course I won't do it. I'm talking about straight white men in particular.

[SlothySlob]

Hah! Good one.

[HawkPerception]

Not normal, but definitely not unheard of.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Yep. Asian girls are beautiful! 🤍

[Someone80004]

Sure, why not? It's their preference

[007kingifrit]

no it's a sign of porn culture and having low social skills. in other words... anime boys

[Asker]

I'm a white guy who has a preference for Asian girls, I don't like animes and I have no doubt a wussie like you has no chance against me if you're not with guns.

[007kingifrit]

yea that's why you posted anonymously

[Asker]

So what? We're all anon here, dumbo.

[007kingifrit]

no we aren't, and you sure do sound frail and angry for such a "big strong man"

if what i said is wrong... it woudln't upset you so much

[Asker]

Whatever. It's a waste of time to argue with individuals like you... You're too dumb to reason with.

[Marianna546]

Asian girls are attractive so..

[Rockstarrrrr]

You mean geeky and nerdy white guys right hehe

[JohnK123]

It depends duh on the white guy

[Asker]

The ones with a good taste in women choose Asian girls. 😆

[Marianna546]

lol...

[JohnK123]

good taste also includes Europeans hahaha

[Marianna546]

yeah lol

[Anonymous]

Of course, why wouldn't it be?

[HeartFullOfGlue]

Not if its ONLY

[Zolly99999]

No...

[Ericblue35]

Normally