Is it hard being a stepfather?

[yeat9999]

I've been dating a girl for 6 months and she has asked me to move in, I love her but she has 2 kids (1 and 7) from two other guys. I'm intimidated by that situation. Is it hard to be in a situation like this?

[Loth2770]

They are pretty young, so they’re more likely to see you as their real dad if stay long enough (especially in the case of the 1 year old). It can be really hard being a stepdad, but as they are not yet teenagers, I’d say it’s probably fine. If you are prepared to be a dad you are prepared to be a good stepdad to these kids.

[theocray19]

My opinion as a man with no kids... it's not worth it. It's hard enough w 1 baby daddy but you're dealing w 2.

Also if you have no kids the difference is going to be detrimental. You are going from being responsible for yourself to being responsible for 3 people.

RUN AWAY!!!

[KrakenAttackin]

There is no future in playing another man's saved game.

[Nikki1989]

I imagine it would be very hard.

[bamesjond0069]

Run bro. This is a trap. Run!!!

[Guy13]

Yes but fun…

[Guy13]

Some cultures will call you uncle rather than Dad or first name. It is both a sign of respect and endearment