Why did the guy i’m talking to give me a lot of money?

[Anonymous]

i barely ask for money and pay for some of our dates and but he mainly does. & this time he asked for what and i said food or to get my nails done & he said 75 dollars & i said that fine & i said go a little higher as a JOKE ( that’s why i hate texting 😂) & he gave me 100 dollars

[Ευδεμονια]

Hmmm I see the money based relationship as dangerous, since he pays for all, maybe he thinks he can have power on you by giving money.
I suggest you to refuse having him to pay all and giving you so many money, let’s try to split more and to be more independent from him. Try to see how he respond to this, if he is scared/angry or loses interest maybe he was trying to control you by giving you money.

[Asker]

i see what you’re saying but nahh he knows i love him for him. ii’ve done so much for him mentally & physically.

[Ευδεμονια]

If you’re so sure about his love, why you wrote this question?
I think you should try to refuse his money and see his reaction… I hope this is not the case, but sometimes people fake love and interest only in order to have control on others.

[Asker]

this is obviously the only time he’s given me money because i askeddddd he hasn’t given it to me freely before. he just pay for most dates & such

[Asker]

like i’ve asked him for money twice for food & this. one time i did refuse because & he said no no & then ok

[Ευδεμονια]

I sincerely think you two have a good relationship but I think something’s off about him giving you money. Sure if he gives you money because you asked, it is ok, but I intend it as a lend of money, so maybe you should return him his money back. Be attentive so he can’t eventually use the money lend for “other purposes”.

[DaveJord]

Dude sounds like a loser trying to over compensate for other things.

[Asker]

like what because he knows im waiting and not rushing for sex so that’s out the picture lol

[DaveJord]

yeah pretty much he is trying to impress you with his money, because he might be lacking in charm.

[mermaidcancermoon]

he's just trying to impress you.

[Asker]

that’s what i thinm

[Mia-Wallace]

Almost forgot people think $100 is a lot.

[Asker]

its a a quite but for someone you just met…

[Anonymous]

I guess he just likes owning nice things.

[Asker]

yikes nice mentality…

[Opinion Owner]

What are you having a go at me for?

Its nothing to do with me, you are the ones doing this.

If you didn't think this was a transaction you wouldn't have posted, you have just been happily bullshitting yourself because you haven't given up your cunt.

No different to the women who claim they are virgins because they only ever suck dick and get fucked in the ass.

[Asker]

i’m actually a virgin & just a real female who has brothers and a good father… you’re probably single aren’t you? please evaluate yourself because i could tell you would give any woman a hard time for the slightest things 💀

[Opinion Owner]

Oh just fuck off.

What an unbelievable cunt you are.

If you aren't happy with your choices then make different ones, but dont go shooting the messenger because you can't cope with reality.

If your family is so great, why are you here asking me what I think, why you dont you ask them instead?

[PatriceONeal]

Yeah we believe you

[Asker]

yeah u should