I cash apped this guy money and now he's asking me what it's for, what do I say?

[ChildofVenusxox]

So I sent this guy (He and I actually use to see each other but recently he told me he was too busy with work and didn't have time) a small amount on Cash app just to see if I was sending the money to the right person telling him I would send more. I asked him if he received it and he said yes and laughed asking me what it's for. I haven't replied because I don't know what to say. I sent him the money because I want to pay him to cuddle with me.

Yeah, you can say it's desperate, crazy or unusual but there is actually a certain thing called cuddle therapy. And some people actually work as professional cuddlers and earn money for doing so. And yes I know I could find any random guy to cuddle with.

[Anonymous]

You can’t just decide someone is your cuddle therapist and make them feel obligated by sending money without saying a word. Ask first, let him decide if he wants to do it or is even comfortable with that arrangement, then send the money IF he even wants you to pay for that.

[ChildofVenusxox]

Yeah, I get that but now the person is asking what the money is for and I don't know what to say.

[Opinion Owner]

Word it how you want but something like: “I’m sorry for randomly sending you money, I got ahead of myself and should’ve had a conversation with you first. I’m wondering if you’d be interested in cuddling with me and that’s what the money is for. I know you’re busy so if you aren’t interested it’s ok, I just enjoy the comfort and would really like to continue that, if anything”. Like I said, word it how you want but something along those lines would be good.

[ChildofVenusxox]

But I only sent $5.00 as a test to make sure I was sending it to the right person.

[Opinion Owner]

Like I said, word it how you want. But it doesn’t matter what it was for, he’s still asking and unless you’ve changed your mind about the cuddle thing then you have to be completely upfront. If you feel to awkward or embarrassed to tell him the whole story, then why do it in the first place, you know?

[Guy13]

Money is a tool. You apparently like his tool. You’re an adult. You’ve made up your mind. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Tell him for you to be his Professional Cuddling Therapist

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thanks for MHO :)

[In_Trance]

Tell him what it's for

[ChildofVenusxox]

You don't think telling someone you'll pay them to cuddle with you is crazy?

[In_Trance]

I think it's retarded but you do you

[scooogy]

Tell him he should invite you for dinner