How to tell if a man doesn’t get laid a lot?

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How do you tell if a guy doesn’t get laid? Are there any tell tale signs?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Depends on the guy. Some get more reluctant while others get more anxious and horny.

I haven’t been laid in over a year. At least I can say my last hook up was with a very attractive much younger woman. But unfortunately had some serious financial issues rise up in my life. I haven’t tried to date outside dating apps (which has been a diminishing return) because I don’t have time or money for expensive dinners/drinks

I did recently chat up and planned a date with a girl who seemingly liked me. She then flaked big time and then I stopped contacting her. Now she’s literally begging me to hang out again.

If it was 10 years ago I admit I would of used this to my advantage i. e. asked her to come over my house and likely get laid because she feared I might stop giving her attention.

But nowadays drought or not I don’t want to stick my D into potential big drama and crazy. The fallout from that is never pretty.

It really sucks and I admit I am lonely and depressed. But I am not going let my D talk me into lowering my guard again.

NoUsernameSelected · Accepted Answer

He tells you too much.
Someone here said he immediately talks about sex - which I don't think is true. Someone who doesn't get laid a lot might have problems with having the talk that clearly signals "I'm applying for the boyfriend position, not the friend position". Ok - not directly talking about sex, but you have to make your intentions clear. A guy needs to show a girl that he thinks as someone he is sexually attracted to inside the first 5 minutes (outside of work or other similar places).
Also the guy that let's you talk too long about non-romantic topics. He will more often than not look like some friend you can talk to, which is fine after he acquired the boyfriend status, but before it's absolutely not fine. These guys will be friendzoned before they know it.

Chris_8036 · Answer

Maybe he seems desperate and frustrated, and he's always expecting love to find him or something?
When I'm in a relationship I get lots of sex, but when I'm single I just stay home and become introverted and sleep a lot, (It's what I like). I don't get sex again until I get into another relationship. It could be years in between, lol.

ArtemisSilver · Answer

Yellowing eyes, extensive body hair, an unpleasant stench like a wet dog that rolled in garbage. Feet roughly three times the length of those of an average adult male... Wait that's Sasquatch. NVM

SimpleGuy95 · Answer

One sign is his behavior towards women if he seems uncomfortable being around women where there are not many or no guys around.

Whatever2929292 · Answer

You can't really tell. You just can't. Why do you care about someone else's sex life?

serious · Answer

By observing his behavior, by seeing how he speaks with women

Hulk30 · Answer

it can be faked through abundant behavior but it's usually if men get over zealous over the possibility of sex

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Desperate for sex. No game. No female friends or connections.

qwert1234 · Answer

If he says he gets laid a lot.

Wise4myage · Answer

Some guys act very desperate.

cootjuhh · Answer

he gets a boner more often and faster

Fuentes · Answer

If he can't make the first move quick

JohnK123 · Answer

If he says it on gag like I do

sharrinfoxx · Answer

If he tries to make things sexual immediately

boggboss · Answer

He is bad at sex

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Yup, he's married.

jahaims · Answer

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