When should I see him again?

[Anonymous]

I am very new to relationships/dating so bear with me lol. I hung out with a guy on Monday and it went well and ended with making out. I texted the next day that I had a good time and would love to hang out again and he immediately responded yes. So I told him to let me know when he’s free cause he said he’s super busy this week with work/school/sports but he hasn’t responded since he said yes to hanging out again. I’ve been debating whether to invite him over this weekend to hang out but don’t know if maybe he’s not interested or if that’s too soon or forward. Once again please bear with me as I’m very new to this kind of stuff hahaha

[Bluewater31610]

My opinion, believe him. He says he is busy --- means he is really unsure how you are going to affect/change his current life. Look with in yourself, discover what traits you liked about this guy u hung out with. Was he cute, his physical appearance, honest, a good kisser, did he arouse U, make a good friend?
Now, what motivates you to want to have more contact with him. Do you see a good, honest person with potential? Do you have a life plan that you want to work toward? --- Just hang out -- be social --- serendipitous discover good times --- What needs of yours were stimulated --- More importantly what needs do have -- That is a question.

[Bluewater31610]

Pardon me, I did not answer your question, not directly in any case. Tell him "You would like to get to know him better" Who knows what he is busy with -- if he is a guy with traits that are attractive -- a lot of girls are out there -- just like there are a lot of guys out there. Not everyone is a match for you or him. No shame or loss in that.

[HighValue]

Just ask him when he will have time again so you can get together. If he wants to see you again he should have an answer so you can schedule time together.

[Jamesshinobi]

i never understood these types of questions. if you want to see him tell him. he decides if he wants to see you. if he doesn't then spend your time with someone that does. we aren't here for long. dont waste time waiting around