If you are crushing on someone and you figure out they have depression or anxiety would you like them less or more?

[Anonymous]

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Depends.

Do they manage their mental health?

I'm diagnosed with Generalized Anxiety Disorder, and it has taken me years to get to a managable place with it. I got to therapy monthly (or more if needed), am working on building systems that help me manage it, and medicate.

If they say they're depressed or anxious, but can clearly manage it, it doesn't affect my attraction.

If they say they're depressed or anxious, complain about it, use their illness as a crutch to excuse laziness or poor habits, and don't manage it, I'm not calling them back. I'm not meeting up even as friends. I dry out so fast I could cause another drought and if I had a dick it would be inside my body.

Nothing turns me off more than someone who refuses to manage their lives.

[Anonymous]

Id try my best to help them.