Ladies does a black man having a victim mentality because of the color of his skin a turn off?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[WonderBell99]

Would I date a black guy? Yes. Why? The amount of melanin in his skin does not matter.

Would I date a black guy with low self esteem? No. Why? I would NOT date any guy of any race who has low self esteem.

Self confidence is attractive. Everyone has insecurities, but I cannot stand those who keep going on and on about how “unattractive” they *think* they are. Self depreciation is never attractive to most *sane* women.

I really hope this is a troll question. You do not need a relationship now. You need to sort yourself out and start having a healthier view. Your skin color does not make you unattractive. I have never seen you, so I cannot lie and say you’re attractive, you may or may not be, but for now, all I can say is that this mentality is DEFINITELY a MAJOR turn off.