Guys, if you had abs/six pack/flat stomach, would you only date/be attracted to girls like that or would it be subject to personality, etc?

[kao118]

[A_stranger]

Most of the people these days are Superficial. Girls want guys who are tall, muscular, wealthy and handsome.
Guys want girls who are too fancy, curvy and pretty.
But there are exceptions too and obviously evryone likes confidence so there's that.
Totally depends on the person but if we're generalizing then yeah the guy would at least want someone pretty or cute.

[kao118]

So cute and thin but not flat tummied?

[A_stranger]

Depends on the guy...

[A_stranger]

And yeah personality matters too

[zagor]

I once had those, and was attracted to girls who looked good and had nice personalities. As far as fitness, they should be able to stand up for a long hike or ski all day, but beyond that, whatever.

[jhl_x]

No. It'd depend on her personality before everything, even though I'd also prefer someone who's minimally active physically.

I'm also saying this in the position of someone who's got none of the above, therefore none of the extra attractiveness and attention that comes with it.

[kao118]

Aww shucks but I like to think that we all either have or don’t have something so I’m sure you have something else like personality or kindness that others don’t!

[jhl_x]

My perception of reality would be different if I were better-looking and was exposed to more female attention than I actually am. Being complimented or desired fuels confidence, specially for men. The people I got close with were in the right place before anything else, and I certainly had to talk my way through to get to them.

[HighValue]

I'd rather be big and strong like a bear than be skinny with a six pack and weak arms like most people are that have six packs.
Anyways, I prefer skinny, petite, pathetically weak and wimpy girls the most. Athletic ones are my second choice, but the wimpy ones are my favorite.

[BungusHighFivePizza]

not crucial but i worked hard 4 it
mebbe u can relate it 2 being an artist and dating someone who doesn't love ur art
not dealbreaker but little bit disappointing

[Keepitreal007]

Personality for sure. And she would need self confidence and not feel insecure if I had abs and she didn’t. If she’s confident in a swimsuit next to me then she can have curves and waves and I’d be fine.

[Hairylegs222]

I have abs but I just prefer women on the slim side. Seeing muscles on women is weird. It's like seeing my own muscles on her lol. Flat tummy is fine 😊. Personality is a different story.

[Guy13]

Personality and small pudgy... not overweight and flabby and flapping arms

[FilmGuy93]

Everything dating is always subject to personality.

[Iron_Man]

I don’t have the best looking stomach but I have the best looking face so everything works out