I always enjoyed a nature walk/hike or walk in the park. Gives you two some alone time to talk and enjoy nature together. If you don’t like each other, you can leave easily. It’s also free! I’m not a movie/dinner type either. I like to be able to talk to her. Can’t do that in a movie.
A trip locally to a activity based attraction. In my county, we have a curling ring as well as an axe throwning club and two rifle ranges. There are also museums, including a railroad museum in the next county with active trains.
For me it would just be candle lit park picnic. Would be apsolutely perfect. As to the food just a simply fun fruit salad and like sandwhiches would be perfect.
I have taken cave tours, also ziplining or hiking.. if that is too physical perhaps some local theater production. Of course this would be when you have a relationship (such as your case) already.
If she was really into a hobby I would enjoy sharing that with her to get to know her better as well. I think seeing someone enjoy their passions can tell you a lot about someone.
I would love to go skating with her. I haven't been in a while and though I may not be the best at it (falling on my ass every 5 seconds). I still feel like it'd be fun and enjoyable. 🙂
perhaps something he likes to do. a favorite hobby of his. if its sports go play some sports with him or maybe take him to a game at a stadium with dinner after.
Oh maybe a nice coffee date get to know each other a bit or probably go out to dinner together anything where we can really talk because if I am going to be with someone I'd need to know if I can enjoy talking to them first lol
No it’s not, and we are still discussing it weighing the pros and cons to see if that is something that we could even afford at this point, but that’s for being so concerned that’s sweet of you.
I was under the impression it had little to do with economics, but the physical pain and mental anguish it put you through during your first pregnancy? I know I'm remembering that correctly. Money wasn't even a concern in your posts.
This is one of those things where you will tell me I misinterpreted the post. To me, you sounded urgent, critical and serious. I don't believe I read it wrong, but you're telling me I did, so I'm going to drop it.
smh... girl, I don't want to re-live the exact posts. You want to say I "assumed". I did not. I evaluated your posts and drew conclusions based on the information YOU provided, and the "emotion" you provided it with. You can tell me "I was wrong", but I don't believe it. So, that's why I said.. let's drop it.
So you concluded how I was feeling and my emotions through a post that I made weeks ago even though I didn’t really say anything about them?… no please tell me how I feel since you know my emotions so much better than I do. Lol
Ok girl, you can have the last word, but do so while you re-read your posts and see everyone else's comments as well. You're back tracking, I'm sure you have your reasons.
I would say dinner of your choice and a night out together whether it be a show or a movie, theater or stage show or at a ring with my niece MMA fighting Lol she is 23 and 1
@Sixgunsound would bad mistake but there are a lot of dumb people around and the law is on my side once they are in the house and no mercy once you are in my house
one of the dumbest things is the Disney thing taking away their self-governing thing because they didn't agree with him, so he is going to spank them but all he is doing is screwing the taxpayers now because they are going to have to come up with the money for water sewer power police fire department the roads people don't know how much Disney has built stuff for the county think of what the things he would do if you didn't agree with him I was in the Military to save are freedom of speech that is an issue with me and he shuts down business and then makes it impossible to collect unemployment for those that need it that is wrong too they don't tell you everything and he needs to find a new attituded but I am sure he will get the nomination so we will see what happens he needs to grow up a lot
@Sixgunsound not either and I think a third party is time need to do something new and fire all the ones in there now it's not working both parties are crap
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Go too the movies and on the way to the movies have a nice conversation and after the movies talk some more.
I always enjoyed a nature walk/hike or walk in the park. Gives you two some alone time to talk and enjoy nature together. If you don’t like each other, you can leave easily. It’s also free!
I’m not a movie/dinner type either. I like to be able to talk to her. Can’t do that in a movie.
A trip locally to a activity based attraction. In my county, we have a curling ring as well as an axe throwning club and two rifle ranges. There are also museums, including a railroad museum in the next county with active trains.
A date at the zoo, somewhere we could walk and talk and maybe grab a coffee too.
For me it would just be candle lit park picnic. Would be apsolutely perfect. As to the food just a simply fun fruit salad and like sandwhiches would be perfect.
Something fun maybe a little adventurous that normally I wouldn't do alone.
Even if you find you don't match, you should at least have fun in a just friends way on the date.
Eco tourism.
I have taken cave tours, also ziplining or hiking.. if that is too physical perhaps some local theater production. Of course this would be when you have a relationship (such as your case) already.
Depends on his interests obviously, but I enjoy most outdoor activities. Hiking, kayaking etc.
If she was really into a hobby I would enjoy sharing that with her to get to know her better as well. I think seeing someone enjoy their passions can tell you a lot about someone.
Me, I always like walking though zoos and museums
There always a good public place for a first date
I would love to go skating with her. I haven't been in a while and though I may not be the best at it (falling on my ass every 5 seconds). I still feel like it'd be fun and enjoyable. 🙂
perhaps something he likes to do. a favorite hobby of his. if its sports go play some sports with him or maybe take him to a game at a stadium with dinner after.
My favorite is a nice coffee and a walk on a park or next to the beach.
Comfy night on the sofa with a nice movie and a pizza.
Oh maybe a nice coffee date get to know each other a bit or probably go out to dinner together anything where we can really talk because if I am going to be with someone I'd need to know if I can enjoy talking to them first lol
Food is the key to my heart, movies are nice too. Taking a stroll where people are (beach/festival etc.) Also really nice, im not too picky
I am not expecting a certain activity. We are going to be spending time together and that is what counts.
I like theater, museums and hanging out at the beach. Sometimes I might even want to go watch a musical!
I'm really confused... I thought you were married and not in an open relationship?
That would be correct.. though married couples can still have open marriages
But is yours?
What happened to him wanting you to more children?
No it’s not, and we are still discussing it weighing the pros and cons to see if that is something that we could even afford at this point, but that’s for being so concerned that’s sweet of you.
I was under the impression it had little to do with economics, but the physical pain and mental anguish it put you through during your first pregnancy? I know I'm remembering that correctly. Money wasn't even a concern in your posts.
Finances aren’t something that I am fond of discussing with the general population..
My point is - finances were not even a "question" in your initial posts.
Because I didn’t put it in the question…
This is one of those things where you will tell me I misinterpreted the post. To me, you sounded urgent, critical and serious. I don't believe I read it wrong, but you're telling me I did, so I'm going to drop it.
No I’m saying that you made an assumption… but that’s okay because I can understand why you would think that
smh... girl, I don't want to re-live the exact posts. You want to say I "assumed". I did not. I evaluated your posts and drew conclusions based on the information YOU provided, and the "emotion" you provided it with. You can tell me "I was wrong", but I don't believe it. So, that's why I said.. let's drop it.
So you concluded how I was feeling and my emotions through a post that I made weeks ago even though I didn’t really say anything about them?… no please tell me how I feel since you know my emotions so much better than I do. Lol
You must be psychic, not a very good one but hey, I bet some people buy into that kind of stuff.
Ok girl, you can have the last word, but do so while you re-read your posts and see everyone else's comments as well. You're back tracking, I'm sure you have your reasons.
Have fun with your “conclusions” next time I need someone to tell me how I’m feeling I’ll make sure to ask you.
I would say dinner of your choice and a night out together whether it be a show or a movie, theater or stage show or at a ring with my niece MMA fighting Lol she is 23 and 1
Your husband is into fishing. Might not hurt to get into his hobby as well. Add a picnic to the equation as well.
We go fishing together all the time so that wouldn't really be very special
going fishing on a date you would have to know that person well someone on a boat that is not used to it can be a danger
@driven159 lol you don't need a boat to go fishing...
Go full country and fish in the dark? Lol. Let me think.
@neilbud I like your style
where i fish you need one no place from land to fish and you might have lunch with a gator or be its lunch
@driven159 I’m assuming that also means you’re packing a 12 or even 10 gauge
@Sixgunsound 357 magnum
@driven159 I like your style. I have two holstered in my avatar pic.
@Sixgunsound when at home right next to the bed and not tell what kind of rounds I have in it I take the 5th
@driven159 I don’t need to know, and neither does anyone else unless they want to eff around and find out
@Sixgunsound would bad mistake but there are a lot of dumb people around and the law is on my side once they are in the house and no mercy once you are in my house
@driven159 check out a song called I am 911 by Buddy Brown. I don’t seem to be able to post a link.
@Sixgunsound the laws in Florida homeowner friendly
which should be the way in every state once they enter your property line then they accept responsibility for whatever happens
@driven159 New Jersey has duty to get shot
So does NY
@driven159 America needs your governor in a couple years🤠
We’ll give him back once he undoes all the damage, we promise😁
@Sixgunsound he has done some dumb things too, so I am not sure if he would be a good president, he needs to learn a few things first
one of the dumbest things is the Disney thing taking away their self-governing thing because they didn't agree with him, so he is going to spank them but all he is doing is screwing the taxpayers now because they are going to have to come up with the money for water sewer power police fire department the roads people don't know how much Disney has built stuff for the county think of what the things he would do if you didn't agree with him I was in the Military to save are freedom of speech that is an issue with me and he shuts down business and then makes it impossible to collect unemployment for those that need it that is wrong too they don't tell you everything and he needs to find a new attituded but I am sure he will get the nomination so we will see what happens he needs to grow up a lot
@driven159 Given a choice between an imperfect DeSantis or heels up Harris I know which one I’m voting for
@Sixgunsound not either and I think a third party is time need to do something new and fire all the ones in there now it's not working both parties are crap
@driven159 Rand Paul?
@Sixgunsound I mild Rand Raul which he would be once he got into the white house
Trumps message was ok it's the messenger was bad too crazy, and I think power made him lose his way
I am an independent, so I am not Sweid by pollical parties they all need to go and people that have interests in mind not their parties