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Have you intentionally hid your looks to check how much someone likes your personality or to find out that it's okay to not always look your best?

Rab1901
I want to know if you've been intentional about this: either hiding or making yourself look worse purposely in front of someone you find attractive. This could either be in person or online.

I know people are usually trying to show their best sides because most of us are not even that good looking or don't believe in our looks enough, but I was just curious.

I don't mean completely hiding obviously. Maybe like showing your worst pictures, wearing ugly clothes or makeup or something like that.

Quick Story Time Example:
On hinge, an online dating app, I saw this girl who I thought looked pretty, but I somehow found her on social media, and she definitely didn't use her good pictures, and to me, it was clear as day. I don't know if it's because she's genuinely unaware that these pictures are bad or if she was having one of the intentions I mentioned.
Please feel free to chime in on this example if you'd like to.
Yes for both
Yes to check how much someone really likes my personality
Yes to find out that it's okay to not always look my best
No, but I would strongly consider it
No, it's a good idea but I'm not sure if I would
No, and I wouldn't, but I'd show my best
No, I wouldn't, and I don't show my best either
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Have you intentionally hid your looks to check how much someone likes your personality or to find out that it's okay to not always look your best?
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