Men are stupid like that, no... People are stupid like that. In a world where beauty is a most-valued product, we tend to overprice it a LOT. Men think that they are too ugly/stupid/out of your league, women just envy you. I have a similar problem, as a pretty attractive male I used to be passed along as something unachievable by girls, which is not true, I really don't care that much about looks, also guys envied me, because I had incredibly cute girlfriends( not a single normal looking girl ever talked to me, I was stuck with stupid, brainded, but pretty women) and on top of that their own girlfriends used to talk about me being "hot".
My advice: Just walk to a group of people and show them you true self, try opening with a dirty joke of some sort ( but let it be funny). And do not let your confidence show too much when you are talking to people or the guy/girl you like, might scare them away.
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I have experienced this and you shouldn't make other peoples insecurities your problems. I have noticed myself that I make people nervous, and have been told I'm "intimidating" because I'm attractive and how I carry myself. I just don't get it, should I walk around with a sour puss and my head down instead? Your friendly, outgoing, attractive and confident - perfect source for haters. They should be your motivaters... keep your head up high.
I've been in this situation...but not often because I speak candidly to everyone and use my sense of humor so people can't help but like me. I'm not saying I go out of my way for people to like me,but I make it a bit easier for some one to...by being myself. There's nothing you can do if someone disikes you for supericial reasons.Women may be jealous,men may be intimidated...thats not your problem,its theirs.
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I feel like that all the time and then I start thinking that I don't get approached because I'm not attractive enough, I also get given dirty looks by other females and that's just annoying.
I do know one thing..the problem with extremely good looking people...is that we're not well liked.
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