What can I do if I always find a bit promblem finding single guys but always not interested in taken guys but can always find?

[Splatmate22]

I was just looking for only single guys. Have tried a group for learning disability. Tried youth club some. Own. The guy already has a girlfriend. That is already turned off. My turn off is smoking , animal hater, loud, taken guys, player, cheater, not gamer, verbal abuse and abuse. My traits are respectful, honest, open minded, trustworthy. Yet I can't seem to get near single guys since I kept finding guys with girlfriends. Others have approached guys and they also said they have girlfriends. I think that is still type of rejected. How can I find a single instead of a guy. Also, I have tried dating apps and disabled dating apps. I don't think it is my personality. Is there another reason for not finding single guys?

[Jamie05rhs]

Sounds like the same problem everyone else has. I feel ya, sister.

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks for the MHO.

[Chazmatazz269]

Based on this post, might need some outside help.

[Splatmate22]

what type of outside help

[DoctorSex]

You're looking for a guy high in demand and low in supply unfortunately. You're going to have to compete like everyone else. I believe In ths law of attraction.
A wise man once told me something that cut to my core.
"Don't pray for a million dollars, because of you were the type of person who could manage a million dollars, you'd already have it. Pray for understanding, but the best prayer of all is that of better character."

Kind regards,
DoctorSex

[Splatmate22]

I don't believe in god.

[Splatmate22]

Also never got anything with men online kept gw getting old men. Just looking for only single guys that all that I want.

[viaamtrak]

If that is you in the photograph, you are very lovely. Maybe you are looking in the wrong places Do you go to Church or belong to local community groups? I met some of the nicest girls that I ever knew in Church and in mixed social settings, such as planning community events.

[Splatmate22]

church is worst place to meet men.

[viaamtrak]

Maybe you need to go to another Church. I met some fantastic girls in Church in my lifetime. Same in community college classes and as a community volunteer.

[Splatmate22]

all church are same here in England

[viaamtrak]

Then maybe you could save up and move to Canada. A woman who looks as nice as you look would be very popular in the Yukon or the Northwest Territorries. Up there, the men out number the women, just as they do in parts of Alaska. You could be the Queen of the village and meet strong men with good jobs. And Canada is still under the Crown. Another place where women are appreciated is the oil drilling area of North Dakota.

[Splatmate22]

I am not going to fly to get a boyfriend.

[viaamtrak]

You seem to have a lot of things that you will not do. Maybe that negativity is why you do not have a boyfriend. Try being more upbeat and positive about things. DO you get involved in community organizations? Do you have a job where you meet a lot of people? Do you attend schools or classes where you mingle with others? What kinds of efforts have you put into it?

[Splatmate22]

Also I don't see the point of dating people at work.

[viaamtrak]

Good point about dating people at work. Many companies for which I have worked over the years forbid it, as it often leads to issues later on.

[Splatmate22]

That how most the work for learning disabilities has similar rules with dating. Even one of my high school had the same rules of no dating being allowed. I also tried to group for learning disabilities and youth clubs. Can't find anyone.

[__MisterGoneShiner__]

I have the same fate.
When i approach a lady, they either
DROP THE "I have a boyfriend" BOMB
or just lead me on, give me tons of hope about me and her and then say, "nope".

[Marianna546]

So mean

[__MisterGoneShiner__]

I know right...

[Splatmate22]

Yet I always find some isuse.

[jimmy2]

God bless you just chill a man will come by just grab him

[enocheli]

sure lol