I was just looking for only single guys. Have tried a group for learning disability. Tried youth club some. Own. The guy already has a girlfriend. That is already turned off. My turn off is smoking , animal hater, loud, taken guys, player, cheater, not gamer, verbal abuse and abuse. My traits are respectful, honest, open minded, trustworthy. Yet I can't seem to get near single guys since I kept finding guys with girlfriends. Others have approached guys and they also said they have girlfriends. I think that is still type of rejected. How can I find a single instead of a guy. Also, I have tried dating apps and disabled dating apps. I don't think it is my personality. Is there another reason for not finding single guys?
What can I do if I always find a bit promblem finding single guys but always not interested in taken guys but can always find?
You're looking for a guy high in demand and low in supply unfortunately. You're going to have to compete like everyone else. I believe In ths law of attraction. A wise man once told me something that cut to my core. "Don't pray for a million dollars, because of you were the type of person who could manage a million dollars, you'd already have it. Pray for understanding, but the best prayer of all is that of better character."
If that is you in the photograph, you are very lovely. Maybe you are looking in the wrong places Do you go to Church or belong to local community groups? I met some of the nicest girls that I ever knew in Church and in mixed social settings, such as planning community events.
Maybe you need to go to another Church. I met some fantastic girls in Church in my lifetime. Same in community college classes and as a community volunteer.
Then maybe you could save up and move to Canada. A woman who looks as nice as you look would be very popular in the Yukon or the Northwest Territorries. Up there, the men out number the women, just as they do in parts of Alaska. You could be the Queen of the village and meet strong men with good jobs. And Canada is still under the Crown. Another place where women are appreciated is the oil drilling area of North Dakota.
You seem to have a lot of things that you will not do. Maybe that negativity is why you do not have a boyfriend. Try being more upbeat and positive about things. DO you get involved in community organizations? Do you have a job where you meet a lot of people? Do you attend schools or classes where you mingle with others? What kinds of efforts have you put into it?
That how most the work for learning disabilities has similar rules with dating. Even one of my high school had the same rules of no dating being allowed. I also tried to group for learning disabilities and youth clubs. Can't find anyone.
I have the same fate. When i approach a lady, they either DROP THE "I have a boyfriend" BOMB or just lead me on, give me tons of hope about me and her and then say, "nope".
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