Why is it that I attract unavailable guys in my life when I’m waiting for the one and only and yet you don’t want someone in your life?

[Anonymous]

Like there is this guy who said he is in relationship yet shows me interest and so caring and I kinda let him in my heart and I know his taken why does god allow this to happen to woman who wait on the right man to have other man show up who are not meant to be with you and only get frustrated

[Zestyassmf1997]

Why are you even talking to guys you know aren’t available?

[Asker]

Let me rephrase this or say it in a corrective way, this one specific unavailable guy was the first one to approach me from day one I remember how he approached me and introduced himself to me and asking where I was from and since then always greeted me and just would give me extra a lot attention and I currently am single and was at the time so for someone who is waiting on a right man how am I supposed to feel or react let’s say he is very nice and handsome and it wasn’t even you’re attention to get to know him but he be the one approaching etc and we see each other often so how am I supposed to let him go just be rude or what I mean see what I’m saying man like that usually the ones who approach me and than I get hurt like how is it my fault

[Zestyassmf1997]

Now try this in English.

[Asker]

lol okay

[Anonymous]

Why are u even talking to him. he's using you 😂

[Asker]

He the one who approached me first being extra friendly like what is a girl supposed to do in that situation

[Opinion Owner]

Tell him where to go 😂

[Opinion Owner]

If he's in a relationship he's prob laughing at you behind your back