Why do I never attract the guys I’m interested in but the rather the ones I don’t want?

[Anonymous]

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Context: About me: I’ve been complimented on my looks. I would say I'm nice. I might be a little shy around guys, but I do eventually talk when I warm up to them. I want someone respectful and that I could be attracted to. I tend to care a lot and want the best for them, so I expect something in return. By guys I don’t want, I mean either toxic, disrespectful, only want sex, or can’t find them attractive. I’ve met guys my type, but I feel like it’s hard to get close or they don't seem interested

[FilmGuy93]

I'm gonna give you the same three pieces of advice I give everyone who asks a question like this. Please bear in mind that none of what I'm saying is meant to be construed as a comment about you or your particular situation, this only general advice.

If as you go through life, you ever find yourself in a position where you are consistently interacting with members of the opposite sex that don't do it for you; at least one (probably more) of the following things is DEFINITELY true.
1. The company you surround yourself with sucks. (No one's friends are ever the best part of them and that's especially true of women, there's a good chance that your girlfriends are a bunch of soul-sucking harpies that you would be better off without.)
2. You've never taken the time to properly describe what you actually want/need in a partner, so you're just hunting around for the magic feeling, not ever taking the time to understand what that looks like for you. (also really common. It turns out that people look for reasons to be unhappy.)
3. It is entirely possible that you don't bring enough to the table to attract the kind of guy you want. I know we all want to believe that we deserve excellence in our partners, but the reality is that a whole lot of us don't bring shit to the table. I know a LOT of women like this; they just don't bring much to the table in relationships.

[Asker]

What do girls have to offer to the table in your opinion?

[FilmGuy93]

Be a fun and pleasant person to be around. Be encouraging, purposeful, driven, supportive. Know how to have conversations. Don't be argumentative about things that just don't matter. Know how to express the value your man brings into your life. Don't make everything a competition, especially where something like money is concerned.

[Anonymous]

Possibly because you're interested in guys that many other girls are interested in, so it becomes the guy's choice and he chooses the best girl. In other words, there is a lot of competitionand you aren't winning.

Another explanation could be that you don't present yoursef as someone that's interested in whatever type of guy you're interested in (e. g. you dress formally but you're interested in skater guys).

Lastly, you could just be unattractive. If this is the case then the unattractive guys that have no chance with average or attractive girls think they have a chance with you because they know you're also not getting attractive guys because you're also unattractive.

Not giving us any context doesn't help; edit your post to describe yourself and describe the guys you attract.

[Asker]

I can’t seem to update the question, so I’ll just reply here. I’ve been complimented on my looks. I also see myself as caring and nice. I might be a little shy around guys, but I do eventually talk when I warm up to them. I want someone simply just respectful and that I could be attracted to them. When someone comes into my life, I tend to care a lot about them and want the best for them, so I do expect something equal when it’s from him. By guys I don’t want, I mean either toxic, disrespectful, only want sex, or I just simply can’t be attracted to them. Hope this provided a little context. I’ve also met a lot of guys who were my type, but I feel like it’s hard to get close to them or they might not exactly be interested? I don’t know.

[Opinion Owner]

First, being complimented may not even be valid; some people compliment just to be nice. Also, it depends where this compliment came from; if it came from the guy that most girls want then it would be more valid since he's choosing to compliment you rather than the other girls. If it came from an average guy or an unattractive guy then it could be genuine but it could also just be him trying his luck with you.

Second, the guys you're interested in may only act when they know you're interested in them because of their nature (being respectful or whatever). Shyness clearly won't help if that's the case, especially given that men as a whole are demonised for "pressuring" women even though only a subgroup of men do that.

The guys that you attract seem like normal guys. I don't know what you mean by disrespectful but it's possible you mistake their banter for disrespectfulness. Also, you need to be aware that the guys you're looking for are in a niche so when your opportunities come, you need to acknowledge that you need to show somehow that you're interested (not necessarily telling them that or being too forward).

[Asker]

Okay, makes sense. Your opinion actually gave me insight. I could either seem too emotionally unavailable as I’m shy or I’m not sure. This made me recall a few situations in the past where I made my friends tell the guy I like, about me and they’d usually say I’m really cute but then they wouldn’t pursue a relationship with me or make a move even though my friend told them I’m interested, so I’m guessing there’s smth I do that puts them off or maybe I should’ve asked them myself as I tend to shy away from these things? Perhaps I’m way too reserved and uptight or maybe they just don’t find me that appealing? I’m not sure tbh. It remains a mystery to me lol, but your opinion def made me think.

[Opinion Owner]

After hearing that, I think it's definitely the shyness. Once a girl got her friend to tell me she was interested and I found the girl somewhat attractive, but it felt like it would be unnatural to start a conversation because I assumed I'd have to carry it, which is not something I'd like to do (it shows no effort on her part and I wasn't interested in breaking my back to make it work).

When I did get around to texting her, I ended up having to do just that which was not enjoyable - I was not interested in a relationship that I'd need to carry alone, especially when I wasn't exactly searching for one. I ended up not speaking to her again.

[Anonymous]

... How to put this. Decent folk generally are not as obvious as toxic, disrespectful, etc. individuals. You are expecting things instantaneously. Doesn't usually happen.

The toxic, disrespectful, etc. try their luck with anyone. They'll eventually get someone of the opposite sex who'll say "yes" if they try often enough. And they know it.

This is best exemplified with my boyfriend and his brother a few years ago. My boyfriend was very discrete. More of a guessing game - is he interested, am I reading too much into it, etc. - for 2 years. Most will wonder why did I wait for two years. Well, I wanted him that's all that mattered.

His brother, on the other hand, by the 2nd day met was making sexual innuendo comments that I did not enjoy by any stretch. And well he's well known to jump around from bed to bed / not be able to keep a decent relationship.

[Asker]

So what exactly are you saying here?

[Opinion Owner]

You're expecting instantaneous results. Doesn't happen with decent folk. We want to figure out if someone's worth the time & effort.

[hela1110]

It's just a reaction girls do when they feel shy...
Cos someone u are attracted to u feel weird in front of him not really comfortable... And it becomes awkward everytime u try to get closer to him...
However if someone is into u, it feels better and more comfortable like he's the one who should make effort not u... So u gonna be urself cos u don't feel anything towards him

[lonestar_01]

One thing I'm going to ask, if you are sexually/romantically attracted to a guy, do you initiate physical/sexual touch or advances, and let them know verbally from the start you like them like that? For example, do you put your arms around him, kiss his head or give him direct eye contact, hold his hand, do you compliment him, have you told him what your intentions are along with letting him know you are sexually attracted to him? This is one thing where people our own age fall flat on their faces with attracting people, is that we never do anything sexual from the start with that guy or girl we like, particularly from the start, as we are afraid of rejection or we are afraid of being labelled a slut/man whore. As humans we are more likely to be attracted by people, mostly, who let us know physically and verbally any sexual intentions we have for that person as soon as possible. So, next time if you are attracted to a guy, let him know physically and verbally what you think of him. If he rejects you, not the end of the world, move on. If reciprocates, then you know you have a mutual sexual attraction and you can take it fast or slow. Hope this helped.

[Leahbear232]

That is not a people our age thing. In fact most of the young generation is far more open about their sexual advances and goals then a lot of the older generations. It depends on the person and their values/beliefs. As for attracting someone by starting out sexual right away, you can be in for a rude awakening. Some men truly don't like that at all (I've been with a few like that) while others might love it. Some women will feel like you are just wanting to date just to have some fun and that is it (I know I do). I've even turned down guys that I felt were way out of my league (GREEK GODS with brains) because they started out sexual too soon when I just wanted to get to know each other as friends first without the sex. I am not tryna bash you- this is not a matter of who is right or wrong but rather of a matter of you can't fit everybody into the same box when it comes to attracting a partner

[lonestar_01]

@Leahbear232 To be fair that's what I said "If he rejects you, not the end of the world, move on. If he reciprocates, then you know you have a mutual sexual attraction and can take it fast and slow." Everyone's different, but a lot of the time waiting around and never initiating any sexual chemistry, not talking right away from when you first meet them, but a month or so or whatever down the line, is going to get you friend zoned. Not talking about sex either, my examples include "Kiss on the head", "arms around him", "direct eye contact", "holding his hand", "compliments", as this gets your intentions across clearly, and convey you want more than friendship and you can take this fast or slow. For example, test to see what happens if you play with his hair, or run your fingers through it or whatever. Of course, get to know someone, but you've got to know how to incorporate the two well early on in the getting to know each other stage. Speaking as a guy here, so giving examples on how to attract guys. We're simple creatures and nine times out of ten, if the guy isn't a player, or an asshole, then if you incorporate the two well, then a few months down the line he'll become attracted to a girl quickly. If not then, whatever she can move on and try different methods out on another guy

[Leahbear232]

Hey- what ever you are talking about works for some. Doesn't for me. I know what works for me in that department and have been lucky to have t-3 majority of the time been in sync with whoever I'm dating. If someone doesn't have the patience then clearly we are both wasting each other's time since I need a lover who savors a sloooooww burn.

[ohshee]

We all have a sub conscience our deepest desires our deepest Passions you might be saying right now you don't want the bad boy but you have fantasized about the bad boy so when you see one your energy Within lights up and expands it happens when you're right in front of the guy so now he feels something but he does not understand what he feels but you like a magnet and your energy starts pulling this guy in because it's excited he doesn't understand any of this what's going on all he knows is something is feels beautiful around women and he wants to know what it is so he will engage with you sweet talk to you and then one thing leads to another. If you were to find yourself understand who you really are on the inside and what you're capable of doing from the inside out and you know exactly what I'm talking about

[Jaylaaa2000]

It could be the way you treat them.

What i mean by this is.

The toxic guys you have no interest in are easy to speak to because you don't care what think, but the guys you are interested in make you nervous because you are interested in them so it's harder to speak to them because your more guarded.

[Asker]

That’s true tbh, I always feel like I’m holding back or I regret how our conversation went when it’s with them.

[VanillaSalt]

Ima assume this is a rhetorical question with the purpose of self-validation but ima run with it anyway!


1 you think your worth more than you are. Not every woman deserves the hot guy with money. Hot women are a dime a dozen and when you fight with most of the female population for these guys you better be better then them or your just replaceable.


2 you get what you put off and quality attracts quality.


3 men are stepping out in mass because the systems based in favor of women heavily and women don’t know how to behave.

[Asker]

Well I’m not really looking for someone with money. I’m a simple girl, I just want someone respectful, nice and someone I find attractive looks wise. I think this is the bare minimum and I’m looking for it. I do tend to care a lot so whoever comes into my life, has to meet what I can give out, but the main question is I tend to attract a lot of guys with toxic traits, just looking for sex, or guys that I simply can’t get myself to like them. So, is it wrong to want someone who’s just respectful and your type?

[VanillaSalt]

Ya standards are important. I mean how the hell you gonna marry a guy not at least funny, strong, dominate, good looking, with a good personality, money, 6’+, with at least 8” of cock, his own home, vehicle, no kids, wants kids, same politics, same religion, the right race... You see the issue?

I’ve been with several women I wasn’t physically attracted to. But what is marriage? After a while the sex stops and you get used to imperfections they have. A 10 in the park is no different then a 3 in the dark.

Your priorities need to be. What you want from marriage. Children. How to raise children. Good man. Makes money or at least works hard and has a plan.

I have a theory. This newer generations too stuck on the idea of love. Love is the biggest bullshit word that exists. You can’t love someone time you know them. You can’t really know someone until you’ve spent years suffering life with them. Sex. Suffering. Happiness. You think you know someone enough to love them? After living with someone for 10 years you can still grow to live or hate someone. You need to prioritize basics. A man that won’t be lazy or hurt you that agrees on how to raise kids or how to run the home. Your making a promise to live for and with someone and they you. If you have kids and he wants to beat them and you don’t gonna be a problem.

Women that look cute, arnt slutty tramps, have a good head on their shoulders, and want a husband and kids can find a man fairly easy. The question is how your gonna handle him. He too ugly for you? You gonna try and use sex on the first date to keep him around?

Please don’t fucking put out off the bat. I won’t respect a woman that puts out immediately. But at the same time. To men women are only really good for one thing until their important to you... having kids. A woman is a person but if you just a woman your a chance to get laid. When he knows your name and cares you become more than a potential lay.

[Asker]

Well I do agree with you on the priorities and that’s what I put out and yes obv looks fade as we grow older but there’s gotta be some level of attraction there and not just have it feel forced. Im not the type to mess around. Kinda want something serious and saving myself till marriage. So I might have set the bar a little bit higher than usual but I do know what I've got to offer in return. I don't know if that gives off the wrong impression though or just drives the ones that aren’t ready to settle down away.

[Miristheiss]

They approach you because they want you... they are attracted to you.

"guys I'm interested in"... you word that is if you just sit back and wait for guys to approach you... and the ones you WANT do not approach but the ones you do not want do approach.

Hence, it is all up to everyone else while you sit back and do nothing. If there are guys you are interested in than APPROACH THEM.

Go for what you want and quit hoping the "right type of guys" will come to me.
Take the initiative and actively pursue the things you want.

[CallmeTheKnight]

The guys you're interested in are not interested in you at all, so except that. Or maybe you're not shooting your shot like many women avoid doing. If you're an attractive woman, especially with a nice body, a lot of people are gonna be attracted to you. However, based on the context alone, you sound focused on superficial or there is one or two traits you dislike in men that happens to be shared amongst those you don't like.
I hope you're not one of those women who only want "High Value Men". I really hope you're not one of them.

[Asker]

By high value what exactly do you mean and yeah Im not into the whole I only want you so I can f*ck you kinda thing or I’m gonna talk down to you because of my ego. I expect respect, someone who knows their boundaries. I don’t think I’m being unfair here. It’s minimum standards and as for looks, anyone would be lying if they said they don’t consider that a bit. I obv look for personality more, they can grow on me, but I meant that there has to be some sort of level of attraction there for a relationship to work and with the ones I don’t want, I just can’t seem to see myself with them even though I do give them a chance. So I don’t think I’m necessarily superficial.

[CallmeTheKnight]

So you have an ego and expectations? Respect or kindness is a given and everyone should receive that. But how do you expect someone to just ultimately respect you if your ego is allowing you to talk down to guys that you don't like? If one of these guys that you like was aware of this how do you think that makes you look?

[Asker]

No I meant that I’m not into the “I’m gonna talk down to you Bcz of my ego or the I’m only looking for sex” type of guys. Not me saying that about them. I don’t talk down to any of them. That’s just rude. You misunderstood what I said.

[CallmeTheKnight]

Be more clear about that and that extra talk, please leave it outside of this conversation. Women are only in those positions with those type of guys because they put themselves there. That doesn't change the fact that you still have expectations

[CallmeTheKnight]

Another thing, you also have to be an interesting person. I still think you have an ego now

[slatyb]

True ones you don't want hitr on everyone with little success. The l ones you are interested are likely attractive to many. What about you? What makes you attractive?

[Asker]

Good question. People do compliment me on my looks and they say I’m caring and nice. That’s what they mostly say. However, from my perspective, I don't know how I look like or how I appear to others in general.

[Ousaf1]

What's the difference in you talking with dudes you don't want and dudes that you do want? Your question will be answered by that. It could also be the infamous "chasing something that you can't get" kind of thing.

[twis7]

this.

[kkirk4442]

That's one of the laws of nature, that we attract those to whom we are not attracted to, and those we are attracted to, are not attracted to us. Thankfully, it doesn't always happen that way, and there is mutual attraction.

[Avicenna]

Well, it’s usually a matter of more desirable men having more options because if they’re desirable to you, they’re desirable to other women as well. It’s also a matter of scarcity, and people want the best they can get.
but also remember it’s not easy to find someone compatible. I know it’s not the easiest thing for a young woman to do, but you can approach the guys you want and signal your interest.

[GirlyGal20]

you're probably acting differently around the ones you want.

[Srij23]

The answer to the oldest question why don't we get what we want? Is interesting
.. Look even I want hollywood actress as my girlfriend but I am not getting it... For me it's so much depressing and I don't know why... what say U?

[Asker]

I don’t even aim that high. There are several guys in my life that were really respectful and I also found them attractive, so I wouldn’t have minded if they asked me out, but yet when I do try to become closer, it just doesn’t happen. The ones that just want to get u into bed or the toxic ones are mostly the ones that approach me so what’s with that?

[Srij23]

Tell people what you exactly want... good is rather vague term and relative to different people. Be specific for certain points that are not negotiable for example I don't want my girl to do drugs and something you
can compromise say for me I am okay with having sex every 4th day rather than every night although I desire it. Also for me it doesn't matter what she earns or how rich she is etc etc. So jot down points that are specific to your needs in non - negotiable , negotiable and doesn't matter section and start searching... that way you will end up with something meaningful.

[Srij23]

Also like shopping you have to feel the fabric and try out any dresses before choosing the one that suits you... same applies with boyfriends... Being a girl I don't think you will have any problems with shopping 🙂 try that..

[Srij23]

So be casual start dating many people. It works it works it doesn't it doesn't and move on to next... Also donot feel shy on telling them if you like them..

[Azura_88]

THIS ALWAYS HAPPENS TO ME.
I'm destined to die alone.
But I'll also never pick up any rat either to end up even more miserable.
Plus my crushes also disappointed me.
They are just fake and temporary. So my kinda man doesn't exist at all.

[kendall968]

you really just have to patient for the right guy, don't feel like you need to change anything about yourself because YOU DONT and its the guys loss for not wanting to be with you trust me!!!

[Interstate]

You are trying too hard & you can't control the reactions of others. Just be you and whatever happens will happen. We can't always get what we want.

[JoseyWales4]

That’s unfortunate and I’m sorry to hear that. But that happens to everyone. Besides guys are the worst. Forget about them.

[OneManOnly01]

It happens with everyone. I’ve experienced this a lot too. You have to make efforts yourself to get the ones you want. You’re not alone don’t worry

[backseatsways]

I think you'd find countless guys in similar situations attracting women they dont want but not women they did want. I suppose its just luck of the draw good or bad, luck.

[A_Bell]

You probably only want what you can't have instead of looking at others as valuable potential partners.

[Asker]

Is it what I can’t have when I find them attractive and when they’re pretty decent guys, not the ones that are tryna get u into bed or the ones that aren’t your type at all?

[Dontaaa]

I hear that this happens all the time, psh... I wish I could tell you but I have no idwa.

[Dontaaa]

idea*

[Anonymous]

In 2021 , a woman just need to connect on Tinder to get 100 likes from every sort of men she could imagine... so The Real question is : Why women are constantly attracted by things they can't have?
- because a man easy to get... its not fun.

If a nice guy tries to be nearer you... you won't be appealed. BUT if this same guy ignore you , he will suddently become attractive .

Women...

[shalt]

Hahaha, the question of the universe. The world will truly never know, happens to everyone, all the time haha

[Acxx30]

Dont be the kind of person who post's anonymously.. If you dont understand that then you probably won't get the ones you want. I answer all my questions on here brutally honest like i do in real life. I even have my account linked to my Facebook.

[twis7]

everyone wants Mr perfect. tell me, how perfect are you? are you yourself overvalued? there is no mr perfect. stop looking for a type. whatvdo you have to bring to the table? find someone who is your equal.

[byzafer]

Well maybe you should try approaching or speaking to the men you find attractive instead of expecting them to approach you first

[TheFlak38]

you must raise your standards a little more. then you will attract the best ones.

[Anonymous]

Because attractive men have no incentive to be nice; and ugly guys have no control over their looks.

[Anonymous]

Do the opposite thing when it comes to how you act around the ones you want and dont want.

[nonratracereality]

If you really want the unbiased truth please message me. Reality doesn't allow you to waste time.

[Alyssa11]

You’re going for the wrong guys. Look at what common trait you’re going after and assess it.

[jsdhhdh]

Sensitive girls with a normal (healthy) self esteem like you are the ones who hurt guys with out realizing it. @Alyssa11

[jsdhhdh]

Irrelevant opinion but yeah i'm anonymous so i dont care.

[Alyssa11]

It’s okay I don’t get easily offended. But why do you think we hurt guys?

[jsdhhdh]

Because you get caught in this bubble of sensitivity and trying to protect yourself which gives you a motivation to be and do better (which i think is hot lol) yet while doing all of this you forget that there is boyfriend infront of you.

[jsdhhdh]

You run from your fears while doing that you also run from the ones who care about you.

[lsksni]

You like people based on their looks. Talk to the people who want to talk to you. Your preference may change.

[Asker]

To a certain degree, yes, but I tend to like guys with good personalities even if their looks ain’t it. Anyone would be lying if they said they don’t go for looks AT ALL. I acknowledge both, but there gotta be a level of attraction there for it to work, u get what I mean?

[lsksni]

Then, it's just your preference. You can always change it if you cannot get what you want.

[Shy_Steve]

I think most of us have that problem, I certainly do.
We just notice it more when we are single.

[bamesjond0069]

Happens to everyone. there's more undesirables than true loves out there.

[Gosceewual]

because a girl only wants 1 man wheres as 1000 men want her... and because of the science of probability... it means its unlikely that 1 man will hit on you

[Gosceewual]

maybe u should be more open to and accepting of lesser attractive men

[es20490446e]

https://youtu.be/_TR2kgFO2JQ

[Kowoagete]

Probably you are too picky and have your expectations too high. Always thought that no expectations make people happier

[Asker]

I might be a little picky but is it wrong to want someone respectful and someone you find attractive? When I say guys I don’t want, I mean guys that are either toxic or creepy or just straight up want to get u into bed or the ones I just can’t seem to be attracted to at all. I don’t think I’m wrong to seek out guys who are simply what I deserve bcz I know what I have to offer.

[Kowoagete]

I meant that everyone should try what they can handle, it can happen the same as you say to the guys you say are not interested in you. And also the guys you are not interested in can say the same as you are saying now. Is like a never ending circle

[Anonymous]

Same problem here, it’s just the way it is in the dating world

[Anonymous]

I tend to attract a lot of women I'm not into aswell.

[KrakenAttackin]

Because you are chasing Chad Thundercock who can fuck any girl he wants.

[Asker]

Lmaooo

[KrakenAttackin]

I'm not joking. Chase a regular guy and you will find success.

[Asker]

So you’re saying I should chase someone who’s rude to me or just wants to get me in bed right? Cz as far as it goes, I am chasing a regular decent guy.

[KrakenAttackin]

I bet there are tons of guys who have interest in you but you are oblivious to them. Slow down and look closer. I bet there is at least one guy you regularly overlook who would make a great SO.

[Anonymous]

Same here with women and I'm probably twice your age lol. It always seems to be one sided :(

[DeltaCharlieEcho]

Because you’re stupid and filled with estrogen. Hate to break it to you, neither of those things will change.

[In_Trance]

Because you truly dont believe you're good enough for the ones you think you want

[Tstrbrainer]

Maybe because there are other interesting girls out there who are into them

[Anonymous]

You are not attractive enough so you're getting the guys who can't get sex with the prettier girls.

[Anonymous]

hun you are all attracted to the same guys
so all you women are having sex with the same guys

why does he have to pick you?
and 9 times out of 10
you are probably average

stay in your lane

[Leahbear232]

Staying in a lane is something only conceited people believe in. Real love can happen between people that may not seem likely. It can last as I've seen multiple times, not often but if it does why not take it?

[Opinion Owner]

@Leahbear232

ok go for it
when he decides on a girl that's not you
let me know how that goes lol

[Leahbear232]

Only insecure people worry. Actually lol I've always managed to attract guys that are out of my lane. My first partner was the first one to make me feel beautiful. He was built like a Greek God, "pretty" almost gay model face, but also had brains (double major) and $ to match and since then I've just had a lot of confidence since then. we broke up but amicably (I didn't want kids) and are still friends. The whole staying in lane is only believed by people who don't understand real love.

[Leahbear232]

Also- haha ugly people cheat. Everyone seems to think if they stay with someone in their lane it'll last. But news flash, any one can cheat and it's surprising the amount of entitled less than average people they are who want perfection. I've known beautiful people who were much more down to earth

[Opinion Owner]

@Leahbear232

you are a prostitute how can you understand real love?

[Asker]

Your point doesn’t come across in a well put way here. Don’t attack someone without knowing much about their life and “stay in your lane” ain’t right at all here. The same would apply to you. Seems like ur ego got in the way a bit.

[Opinion Owner]

no you are a prostitute

it is all over the internet
WOMEN ARE PROSTITUTES

so how can you understand real love

answer the question what is real love?

[Asker]

Wow lol and what are you, a saint? Lmao. You gotta get off your high horse a bit. True love is when u have respect between both partners and you’re willing to go to extents to make each other happy. There gotta be a friendship too and trust and feel like you both have each other’s backs. So yeah, pick your arguments right.

[Opinion Owner]

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA no
see you don't even know what love is

so how can you love?
have you not listened to the words of GOD
have you not read these ancient texts on how to love
lol

Ecclesiastes 7:28

while I was still searching
but not finding—
I found one upright man among a thousand,
but not one UPRIGHT WOMAN AMONG THEM ALL.

Proverbs 5:5
Her feet go down to death; her steps take hold on hell

[Leahbear232]

Dude. I'm a devout, practicing Christian.

[Leahbear232]

At this point you just sound sad. You are trying to tell me I don't know what love is when you don't even know I've been raised in purity and am faithful to Christ. It sounds like you don't know what love is because love does not judge without at least logic to do so and you aren't rational when you tell someone you never met they don't know love and how I'm a prostitute. I never even had sex but go off

[Opinion Owner]

@Leahbear232

Jesus wants AGAPE

so now I want you to go do something ok

GO FIND A POOR MAN
who truly believes in Christ above the dome
and I want you to stick by him till the end

good luck
let's see if you can resist the urge
for resources

let's see if you can resist the urge to be a prostitute

[Leahbear232]

I think you mean well, I truly do. But you shouldn't be going around telling people that they will become prostitutes. I've been with the same man I intend on marrying. We started dating 2 years ago and are engaged to marry in a few months. I don't need your well wishes since it sounds like a back-handed compliment. That's an insult

[Asker]

@Leahbear232 Lol just ignore at this point. You earned my respect. Haters gonna hate.

[Opinion Owner]

hun you are a prostitute
you don't know how to think other wise

ohh and
hun we are in the end times if you cannot see it
YOU ARE BLIND

Revelation 13:17
and you will not be able to buy or sell least you have the mark
th.bing.com/.../OIP.JIxX0obkyjNbYbgkVmrCKwHaE8

Revelation 13:13
And he doeth great wonders, so that he maketh fire come down from heaven on the earth in the sight of men

[Opinion Owner]

@Leahbear232

if you are not ready to be poor good luck

[Leahbear232]

You're hiding behind anonymous. Something tells me you're a troll. Also you're misquoting the Bible taking that completely out of context.

[Leahbear232]

yeah, you're right. He's probably just a troll. Or a hater. Either way, thank you! @asker

[Opinion Owner]

@Leahbear232

im not trolling

GLORY TO MY CHRIST ABOVE THE DOME
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LMr6Qb0_5kM

[williamHD]

Energy and stuff like that

[Leavesbound]

I don't know but welcome to my universe.

[Anonymous]

Me too. It's like Cupid's fucking with us

[TheSpaceGnome]

Ask out the ones you like until one says yes.

[Onecurse]

Don't worry it happens to all of up.

[Jmmmfi4]

I have a very similar problem with girls

[noob__master]

You are placing yourself to high on SMV

[zagor]

Maybe your self-valuation is inflated.

[seanscoopers]

What do you mean by that

[Asker]

I attract the guys that aren’t my type but never the people I’m interested in.

[AnarcosXD]

@seanscoopers
Could I ask a personal question on your DM?

[seanscoopers]

What

[lucas262]

But you got no pictures?

[Anonymous]

Happens to the best of us.

[Guardian45]

GO AFTER WHO YOU WANT! DON'T BE A WALLFLOWER!

[JamieLoves]

It’s always like that

[fonduegirl]

can't relate to that

[Asker]

Cool then give us ur input

[fonduegirl]

I think you should try asking them out first. Most men dig that assertive shit so there's a good chance of positive outcome.

[Jamie05rhs]

Welcome to the club.