Why when you are young you always attract the guys you don't want and never get the guys you want?

[Tonita91996]

[SotiCoto]

Because Vagina, probably. Female privilege.

As the other gender, when I was young I always attracted absolutely fucking nobody and nothing ... which is completely ordinary for those of us with a Y chromosome.
Fortunately I was able to overcome that hurdle with excruciating amounts of personal effort during my 20s... but I could never do enough to make it last, so I kinda gave up once I hit 30 and have been a hermit since then.

But because you're a vagina-haver, you whine about what you do get because it isn't precisely what you wanted.

Don't worry though. You'll know what it is like eventually. All women eventually get old enough that nobody is attracted to them any more... and thus get to experience roughly what the majority of men know from the very start and ever after.

[ProbablyClueless]

You're relaxed around people you don't like, so you're showing your authentic self.

By the way, that pattern doesn't seem to change through out life.

[NathanDavis]

I didn't even want to attract them at all... but still happened, two or three rogues tried their luck, but no... none of that

[Knightwatch27]

Any number of reasons. But if you attract guys you don't want, maybe it's something to do with your own behaviour and signals.

[Juxtapose]

Because the people you want are probably rare while the people you don't want are common.

[katiesmuff]

Does it get better when you get older!