Why do I always fall for guys who don't want me?

[Anonymous]

[Nik1hil]

Reason 1) Because you think you are not good enough anyone.

Reason 2) Because you had a traumatic past, and deep down you are worried that the other person would leave you eventually..

Your action) So you Intensionally let yourself only fall for that person, who doesn't want you because that ensure you won't have a successful relationship and not face the reality that "You can be good enough for someone" and since a relationship wouldn't built in first place, you wouldn't be scared of them "Leaving you" since they were not your to begin with in the first place.

Conclusion : You pursue unrequited love because it comes with the least amount of risk and pain.

Let me know how accurate was I!..

[Asker]

Omg my mind is becoming bad, I keep forgetting that I always run away from men. I tried to forced myself now cause my mom thinks I am supposed to find a husband before getting old

[Nik1hil]

You run from the men with whom a successful relationship can be built..
I am not accusing you!..

I am the same, 😂🤣the moment I find the right girl i run away...
The moment I see a doomed relationship, I chase it 😂😂

[StarWarGirl]

We girls very much lives in dream words and get false dreams and expectations so soon.

Better just get slow down and make a rule for yourself to not assume anything unless and until you listen in those clear words that he wants you. Make a rule to see all males out of your reach unless and until he shows interest in you.

[Anonymous]

I think that’s just how is girls are. We like the bad boys who treat us like crap. But we ignore the nice guys who treat us like humans. Just give a nice guy a chance and it will get better. Don’t go looking for the toxic ones.

[ChiTown33]

You're a guy aren't you. No woman gives sensible advice like this. Certainly no woman 18-24 😂
This should get automatic MHO.
You know why she doesn't though. The nice guy is BORING. She'd rather take the big gamble sometimes those long odds pan out.

[Nik1hil]

@ChiTown33 😂🤣💯💯 Preach Bro!. 😂

[Opinion Owner]

Whether or not you guys think that I am a female is of zero concern to me.

You can believe whatever your lovely heart desires. Ciao!

[Anonymous]

I don't want you either