Girl honestly guys like that ain't shit anyways so you don't need them in your life. However, maybe you just come off as shy and you're probably really pretty so assholes like that will try to use you for one thing. I don't know if all guys are like that but I've spoken to tons of guys and I ain't even that pretty and they STILL use me for shit. I think it just depends on the guy you give your time too, but it happens a lot that the worst guys are the nicest ones becauss they turn into crap the minute they don't get what they want (trust me). But not all guys are like this (idek anymore) just hope for the best and keep pushing. Maybe be more confident in yourself and don't let those gross ass men define you by your body and what they think of you. by the way if someone I was interested in or dating ever said they wouldn't have dated me if I was going to say no to sex, I would have broken up with them that minute cuz that's toxic as shit. Sorry you have to always go through this, but maybe it'll get better.
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It could be you come across lacking assertiveness, so guys feel you are weak enough to be manipulated by them. I'm not saying to become aggressive, but you may want to establish yourself in a responsible position, so people can see you for what you are doing rather than body parts. Get involved with an organization you can relate to or do volunteer work. This can be interest oriented, work oriented, service club, helping the less fortunate or challenged, or political/cause oriented. Take on a position that allows people to see you in action, where you can make the most of your abilities. The more you do, the more confident you'll come across. The more confident you are, the less likely guys will hit on you for just their own pleasure.
You can also mention this to adults who know you well. Ask them to help you see how you may come across that might attract these types of guys. If they mention actions you take, find replacements that might be more effective. If they mention physical aspects, out of your control, do your best to minimize rather than draw attention to those aspects. I hope you find people who appreciate the total you.
Awwww! You're a real sweet heart if what you're saying is true. Sadly not many girls are like you. In my experience, girls here treat you badly if you're nice to them. They think that just because you're nice that they can step on you. That's why I stopped being nice. Why didn't you take a step further sexually with your ex?
You might give off a vibe that’s very timid, and guys like that will think they can get away with saying thing like that. And it sounds like they have gotten away with it. Men need to think that if they say that kind of shit to you, they will suffer the consequences. They need to be scared of what will happen if they disrespect you. But they won’t be if you seem like a pushover.
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Because they want to sleep with lots of women, and not care about having good intentions past the first sexual encounter.
It's not just you ,
Boys are just horny f... You can find that person's you want just make sure he isn't using you for sexDon't blame yourself, Just try focusing on Guys that have Good intentions for you.
Life have get true the shit before you find good one
Describe what good intentions mean to you.
You'll develop a filter as you get older
Aww you seem really sweet
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