Why did he tell me on our date that he dates models?

[Jendcheuebc]

[bowenw]

He could be trying to convince you that it's no big deal if you sleep with him because he dates models.

[Jendcheuebc]

Well I model too and look like one. So I didn’t understand why he told me that like I don’t look that way or something.

[bowenw]

He could be trying to convince you that he dates other models so you should sleep with him because they do.

[Jendcheuebc]

Makes sense. I bet he’s lying tho lmao

[bowenw]

You could try to catch him in a lie.

[Jendcheuebc]

I’ve seen pics of him with other chicks and I’m definitely more classy looking than them tbh. They look like they party a lot.

[bowenw]

It sounds like he could be lying about dating models.

[boggboss]

Because thats the type of women he goes for probably trying ro impress u

[Jendcheuebc]

I model though. So why is he saying it like I’m not his usual type?
I don't know maybe I’m reading into it too much.

[boggboss]

How is he saying it like u are not his type

[Jendcheuebc]

I don't know. Maybe I just feel insecure. I think I need to lose weight. Isn’t 5’8 and 131 pounds not thin?

[boggboss]

Yeah I think your allowing your insecurities to turn this situation into somthing its not

[LazerBean]

Because he is insecure and is trying to boost his ego.

[Jendcheuebc]

Is he telling me I’m not his usual type?
He knows I also model, I’m 5’8 and he’s like 5’10 and I was wearing heels. Anyway I just thought it was weird and made me feel insecure.

[LazerBean]

Maybe, maybe not. He is probably just trying to make you feel a sense of competition and like you are lucky to be with him.

[Jendcheuebc]

Well I don’t think he’s into me.
He has complimented many other features about me. But I feel cheap and disgusting tbh like I’m not a model.

[Jendcheuebc]

Thing is I truly think I’m out of his league on many levels and can get someone so much better, many he knows that so he wants to chop me down?
Guys used to make “model” comments towards me when I was overweight, and recently I gained 5 pounds so I feel fat tbh

[LazerBean]

I don't know about any of that, but I personally would not date someone came anyway. He sounds insecure in a pain in the ass.

[Jendcheuebc]

I don't know what to do. I feel incredibly scared of him. He’s also my coworker. I think he’s a narcissist. He also told me he fucked his ex’s best friend as revenge to her.

[LazerBean]

Why would you go on a date with someone like that, or associate with them at all? Just break it off and be done with it.

[Jendcheuebc]

Can I just not respond?
I think I’m already sucked in and being emotionally manipulated. So it’s hard to pull away.

[LazerBean]

Just ghost him..

[FilmGuy93]

He probably meant that as a flex and compliment to you. If he can date models, and he's dating you, you must look like a model.

[Sarahplus2]

Trying to impress you. I would have laughed at him

[Jendcheuebc]

Well I model outside of work too and look good. So I don't know why he’s saying it as if I’m not his usual type. Unless I’m overthinking.

[Sarahplus2]

Probably through up a red flag for you.

[Anonymous]

He's trying to impress you?

[Jendcheuebc]

Is he trying to say I don’t look like a model?

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe.

[Jendcheuebc]

He just said something like “this is an issue with me but I like to usually date models, I don't know what it is”
I thought it was weird. I’m a model myself.

[Opinion Owner]

Not sure why he would say that.

[Jendcheuebc]

I need to lose weight. I’m like 131 and 5’8”.

[Opinion Owner]

Nonsense, your weight sounds perfect.

[Jendcheuebc]

Well tbh I feel so insecure about how I look now.
Why is he saying it like I’m not his usual type?
I don't know maybe I’m reading into it too much

[Opinion Owner]

I bet you are overthinking.

[RuthlessAggression]

are you a model?

[Jendcheuebc]

Yeah I model part time outside my 9-5 day job

[Jendcheuebc]

But I felt weird it’s like he told me that as if I’m not his usual type or something.
I’m 5’8 and so is he by the way

[RuthlessAggression]

Me too!

[RuthlessAggression]

By the way, you sound hot af

[Jendcheuebc]

Well I wish I could find a guy who thinks the world of me. Tired of these children negging me.

[RuthlessAggression]

I wish I could show you how I would feel about you