Which gender is more likely to DATE an average looking person with an average income but a good personality?

[Anonymous]

The question refers to attractive people

The question refers to DATING

Attractive men

Attractive women

A total of 73 votes were cast: 18 girls and 55 guys. See detailed results

[DaveJord]

I am not surprised by this vote. Some guys have just cracked the code. You date a less attractive women, that truly appreciates you and your totally treats you right and makes you happy.

Or date a chick thats hotter or just as attractive and deal with her acting like she can do better than you if she really wanted to. Or has elevated since of self worth thats greatly exaggerated, given her weak personality despite the sexy body.

Well thats been my personal experience with dating more attractive women vs average looking women. Average looking women can be perfect 10s to... and 10/10 in looks can be way worse than any average looking person.

[DarkWinterNights]

I feel like too many people forget the definition of average. Average is most people. It’s not an insult. I see a lot of women claim they are 10’s and deserve the best and that mindset screams immaturity to me. Most average adult men I’ve known have sought after, dated and married other average women.

[MCheetah]

Speak for yourself. "Average" is insulting as f*ck to me. That's calling someone disposable, replaceable, and objectively worthless. That's literally the worst thing someone could call me: Insignificant and valueless.

[DarkWinterNights]

Fair enough. I wouldn’t call someone average to their face. It’s just the methodology I’ve used to see the world. In my viewpoint 60-70% of the population falls between a 4/10 and a 6/10 and it drops off on both sides from there, with both a 1/10 and a 10/10 being extremely rare. Personally I would rate myself a 5/10, maybe a 5.5 on a good day. It’s never really bothered me.
The worst thing a person could call me is “creepy”. Was called that once in high-school and it absolutely devastated my self esteem for years.

[SoftCliff]

I am truly surprised by the answers here. It has been shown by studies that men are more visual creatures than women. I often see couples where the woman was more attractive than the guy, but the opposite was rare

[Asker]

I am surprised too.
I agree with you. Men care about looks more than women do.

[MCheetah]

Attractive men, because women never "date down." If this was both unattractive people, I'd say men are only slightly more likely to date their equals. Attractive women almost NEVER date rich or equally good looking and personality is irrelevant to them, sadly.

[AviatorTom]

In general, men are more concerned about dating "out of their league" and are willing to date average-looking women, compared to women who are looking more for an attractive man.

[sw1916]

Men are more prone because females have way too many options these days with social media. Men do not get that kind of traffic. Men are more likely to settle than woman are unfortunately

[Avicenna]

I would think males. Lots of females are prone to hypergamy, and for them, average isn't good enough.

[Reaper1985]

men tend to date/marry women who are average more then women tend to date/marry men who are average. most guys don't care what type of job a girl has so long as she can support herself and/or help him with the bills if needed.

[Likes2drive]

Men will more often than women, men don’t care what your job is or how much you make as long as you can take care of yourself

[Pudsmucker]

Because the man can be stable and true to his love.

[Anonymous]

Men are much less shallow than women are.
Men find 80% of all women attractive enough.

Women only find 1% of men attractive.

[Asker]

80% of women are not slim or fit

[Opinion Owner]

And?

As long as you are not obese or ugly as a mach truck... guys will be ok with your looks and body.

In order for a male to be physically attractive to a female he has to look like a perfect male model.

[Asker]

Do any guy who has ever had a girlfriend look like a model?

[Asker]

Does*

[Opinion Owner]

Yes. Hugh Grant was married to Elizabeth hurley and fucked a black hooker who looked like a dude.
Tiger woods had a blonde Swedish wife and fucked endless other women.

Men who can get model females will take model females but that doesn’t mean that doesn’t mean they don’t see the beauty of other females.

[zagor]

Men, as a good-looking man has a lot of options and so doesn't feel compelled to go for eye candy.

[Alex8736]

Any gender with a brain 🧠

[LimitedBenefits101]

Easy answer MEN

[Ithink_igoodperson]

like both are equal i think

[Guardian45]

Me!!

[Jltakk]

Men easily.

[NeffexSelfMade]

men 100%