What might he have meant by “it feels so right!” during sex?

[Anonymous]

We’ve been dating about a year, are not I love, probably slowly drifting apart now if anything as I’m now keeping my options open and have advised him to also (even though he says he won’t he probably will). I feel like he tries to make me a bit jealous out in public and always looks over my shoulder to see who I’m talking to when texting now. He’s said he can’t commit but is really happy, to me it’s just becoming uncomfortable. Any thoughts on what’s happening?

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+1 y

Just to clarify, he said can’t commit yet but doesn’t mean he won’t, although in all honesty I’m not holding my breath)

[EaterPeter]

He had loads of fun. It felt right. All over where ever it can. Heart mind body soul. You two stop fooling around. Honeymoon phase is about to be over. Either commit to each other or have a good exit strategy to part your ways. Try not to make it messy to the no point of return.

[Asker]

I don’t make breakups messy. I’d rather be mature about it. I’m feeling like he’s not all in so I’m already half out now too I think.

[Asker]

The thing that really puts me off most of all is the games. This is a 42 year old guy. Either take me as I am or leave.

[EaterPeter]

You know it's not as simple as that. It's difficult to let anyone go once we are invested.

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for like! But this is my interpretation

[Asker]

I think I’ve learned and got stronger at doing that now. It’s taken a few weeks but I know I can get myself there.

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for MHO!

[FilmGuy93]

It sounds like he's trying to tell you that he feels sexually connected with you. He seems to feel a great deal of intimacy in his bond with you, but isn't necessarily able to go deeper at this point, if that makes sense.

[WhitneySnow]

He likes you more than you like him

[WhitneySnow]

He’s jealous. Make him think you have another guy who likes you if you want him to commit.

[_Aragorn]

that advice is not always working. be careful.

[WhitneySnow]

@_Aragorn why?

[_Aragorn]

a significant part of the men would just give up and look for another woman. they don't understand that they have to fight for the woman. contemporary, there are plenty of opportunities and the society changes everyday. I think we should realize that "equality" and more women on the job market changes both men and women in a way that men become more feminine and women more masculine.

[_Aragorn]

trust and loyalty become more important in our time. therefor you should check what kind of personality this man has before doing anything wrong wich may cause losing something you already have

[WhitneySnow]

@_Aragorn oh ok. I don't know all that.

[Anonymous]

He's really into your body.

[Asker]

Yeah that’s what I thought too

[Opinion Owner]

Sweet. :)