Is it love or lust if you like someone for their looks and personality but never met them?

[Anonymous]

[NathanDavis]

neither... it is infatuation on an idealized version of someone you really don't know well

[melanieeeB]

Well said

[Staximus]

You can't like somebody for their personality if you have never met them

[melanieeeB]

I would never call something love, until you really get to know someone over a longer period of time... everything to that point is either lust or liking

[NathanDavis]

better said...

[melanieeeB]

Naaah, yours was really on point haha especially with the idealized version, it's facts

[jhl_x]

None. It's probably a mirage, an illusion. It's easy to hide cons if the interaction is only online.

[Wise4myage]

That's lust in my opinion.

[maximumpower]

You can't tell?