What Kind Of Personality Do Men Love In A Woman?

[fonduegirl]

as romantic partner

[Kaneki05]

Probably a typical woman who's not insane. But how would I know what guys like in women. I know what I like personally but that don't speak for any other guy.
And what I like is a bit off the wall anyway.

[the_sinner]

I guess being open and truthful about feelings, light chirpiness, sometimes being shy about things lol.


P. S I’d love if a girl sometimes likes the dom-sub thingy.

[fonduegirl]

You'd dominate her, I suppose?

[the_sinner]

No I wish we’d switch roles randomly.
There’s fun in being both

[fonduegirl]

Oh okay 😸

[DenizLikesTennis]

1. Open communication instead playing mind reading games by giving signals only. If she finds someone cute, attractive, fancy, she approaches him.

2. Honesty at its finest! How I love when a woman is so honest and tells you directly why she was turned off or on etc. 😍 it'll make me trust her even more and more! The "I don't want to hurt you" attitude isn't so convenient... because surprisingly, that's actually what hurts us terribly. We men can sense it in a second when she is dishonest and puts up excuses. That's why we back away and contact more less than we used before.

3. Compassionate and understanding without to label someone as unattractive or something because you've studied late, earn less, being boring because you can't make her laugh

4. Not giving up and appreciative! She believes that everything will be fine and never surrenders on a guy she likes. Even when he made small mistakes by being too nice, jealous, needy (which can actually happen to everyone!). She sees the positive things and doesn't overanalyze

[BullShark]

Honestly, what men really ever want in a woman is for her to be caring, genuine in her feelings, someone who's a good, understanding friend and someone who won't use them.

Someone who they can open up to about their deepest darkest fears and insecurities and not having to worry about her twisting them around and use them against him in an argument or a fight. Someone who's level headed but also critical and understands basic human emotions and psychological needs. Someone who isn't secretive and hides secrets from her partner and is open to sharing.

In summary, men love a woman who isn't actively looking to cause drama and pick fights.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

The one who is able to stand for herself. Is able to establish control wherever is necessary. Can act feminine wherever she deems appropriate.

She is good hearted, a bit possessive.

She is likeable and humble at the same time. In fact all the qualities I mentioned may not be there, but humble attitude is a must.

You know what, instead of trying to explain the personality, I would say that a personality like yourself is what I would prefer. Not kidding here.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

This is the second question I have answered about the preferred personality of the woman I want to be with. The preference will not ever change as a strong woman is required in a country like India.

[fonduegirl]

Do you think I'm good hearted?

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

I would like to believe that you are.
The parameters I put are generalized. It will depend on the girl whether I prefer her personality or not.

You are practical like me, and that is enough for me. You are able to understand and argue with me honestly. That is enough for me.

[fonduegirl]

A practical person is lacking in expressing feelings generally. Is that something you can accept?

[fonduegirl]

I don't think it can work between two practical people. They'd both fail to see the point, marking the termination of the said relationship.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Yess, you are absolutely correct.

This is where I bring in myt Yin and Yang concept. What one person lacks is fulfilled by the other person. This is nearly my final step. To look out for the girl who more or less lacks what I have and has what I lack.

If you look at the Yin and Yang image, you see two circles having exact opposite colors. Symbolizing a small mix of qualities from the other part. These are the parts that will be beneficial in making a connection between us as they will be the common points between us.

In your case, I described one attribute. Honest discussion. I would prefer to have an honest discussion as a common point between us. I would have liked to search for other characteristics too, but its cool!

What you said was correct. Two practical people may not sustain a relationship. A balance is required which they would not be able to fulfill, most probably. I admit my mistake here. Cheers!

[fonduegirl]

Sorry, I just wanted to have a little debate. It wasn't my intention to prove you false or anything x.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

I thought it was a discussion. Debate is a different thing! I am always happy to have a discussion.

And that too with you, as you are able to find loop holes in my statements, helping me in perfecting them along the way.

[fonduegirl]

You're welcome.

[Jamie05rhs]

@The_Shadow_Dweller I respectfully disagree with you, sir. I think that two practical people could do very well together.

[fonduegirl]

@Jamie05rhs pray tell

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

@Jamie05rhs
That is why I have put the words 'may' and 'probably'.
It is completely subjective. I know that nothing is absolute. People may change and with that their perspective may also change.

[Jamie05rhs]

@anon1903 I'm just thinking that a practical person would go better with someone who is also practical.

Because, picture this:
What if a practical person tries to date someone who just goes with the flow? The latter would resent the former because the practical person won't let them put a vacation on the credit card. (The practical person would rather save up first and then go when they can actually afford it. But the unpractical person can't handle this. Because they lack discipline.)

[fonduegirl]

@Jamie05rhs it depends on what you mean by go with the flow. Like nobody is a cheapstake, if the date wants me to go somewhere, I'd be very happy to unless it's a place as boring as gala or whatever.

But I do see your point. I'm very sharp about finances. As everyone should be. One mustn't rely on ambiguous future, and should start saving as soon as possible.

[fonduegirl]

@Jamie05rhs I never plan things ahead

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

@Jamie05rhs
Going with a flow and being impractical are two different things, sir.

[Jamie05rhs]

@anon1903 "I never plan things ahead.". What do you mean by this?

[fonduegirl]

@Jamie05rhs it's one of the misconceptions about practical people that they plan things ahead. Considering the OpOwner called me practical, I was just clearing that I don't fit.

[Jamie05rhs]

@anon1903 Okay

[Haha456]

It really depends on the guy. Not all guys like the same personality. Some guys like witty girls. Others like mellow, sweet girls. Some may like extroverted bubbly girls. Others may like feisty girls. It all depends on the guy.

But from my experience, its the sweet caring or optimistic / fun loving, witty / funny girls that attract the most men.

[Wubs3000]

Its not super hard you just need to be a good person and don't be insane or super jealous or insecure. You can have those feelings ofc I have lots of them but you shouldn't act in outbursts or super emotionally on those feelings.

So basically be a good person (Kind, generous, accommodating)
Be mature emotionally and mentally
Be a good partner (I. e thoughtful, trustworthy, putting in effort)

Then things like being funny, smart, or other traits are things that some people want more or less of. But generally every man I would say wants what's above.

[NovaCourier]

It varies by man.

Some like the more traditional, feminine, dainty and delicate women.

Some like strong, sassy women.

Some like various types of women.

I, myself like women who are strong and sassy, but I can still look them in the eye. They don't take any sh*t but don't try to belittle you either. It's always argued about whether men or women should "lead" in the relationship. I say no one. A couple are 2 team players. Not a leader and a subordinate.

[Rangers]

It's funny how you think men have any choice in the matter

[fonduegirl]

They don't? 😯

[Rangers]

No, men don't have that luxury, 1 girl for every 4 men, at best and the minute someone comes along who's 1" taller, she'll leave him

The minute she gets drunk and kisses a girl, too is also when she'll leave him to be a lesbian

[fonduegirl]

Low female ratio is patriarchys fault, man, as we tend to favour male child over female

[fonduegirl]

And soon realise that that's disastrous

[Throwawayaccount125]

How would that have an affect on the birth ratio of boys to girls? If the baby is born female are they thrown off a cliff or something? No seriously if the birth ratio is the same why more males than females, if it's not the same why so?
Yes I know it can't be an exact 50:50 I mean like close enough to that like a 50:49 for that one person out there

[fonduegirl]

@Throwawayaccount125 there are some families where the daughter in law keeps getting pregnant until she gives birth to a male child. THAT'S INDIA

[Deku2009]

One that is nerdy , accepting of me and I was of her, , stuff in common, and a open mind

[fonduegirl]

Nerdy is the best 💞

[Deku2009]

Indeed

[Deku2009]

💞💕

[Lionman95]

I would call it a receptive girl. Meaning a woman that is able to receive what he tries to do for her but at the same time can also say what she would like instead if she wants something different or wants him to change in some way.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I like woman that is God fearing and loves Jesus Christ above all else. That's number for one.

Smart.
Submmisive.
Sweet.
Honest.
Direct.
Open minded.
Confident.
Engaging.
Respectful.
Goes against the grain type of mentality.
Strong character (doesn't quit or easily influenced to vices)

[robocop666]

I did a poll on this. there are 2 types they like. The girly girl and the tough chick. we like them both girly girl or tough chick poll

[NathanDavis]

a genuine one...


no pretending whatsoever

[Jamie05rhs]

Positive, smart, curious, playful, talkative, thoughtful, serene, and romantic.

[FilmGuy93]

Easy-going, level-headed, acts with consistency.

[FilmGuy93]

Let me put it more concisely; as long as a woman isn't an actively unpleasant person to interact with, she will outclass the other women around her several times over.

[fonduegirl]

Gotcha

[krin_m]

Intelligent, happy, emotionally secured and funny!

[sirderpsalot123]

A woman who has her shit together, has her own interests, is kind, supportive, confident, playful, nurturing, and trustworthy.

[pizzalovershouse]

Caring friendly good at conversation an not over talking good at listening an fun to be around

[SiberFox]

Tempered, modest, feminine, kind, thoughtful, et cetera.

[Sabretooth]

https://gundam.fandom.com/wiki/Allenby_Beardsley

[genericname85]

bubbly, positive, nurturing, empathic and competent. those would be the ideal things.

[anton_dee]

For me it is - Mature thinking, Calm and most of all INTELLIGENT!!!

[Guardian45]

Smart, Sassy, Funny, Caring, Humble, Trustworthy, Loyal, Honest

[Nigjt]

A good soft caring affectionate loving highly sexual kind.
God Bless

[GreatnessBack]

The one that attract him, and by him, the guy YOU like.

[convo_king89]

The one just wants to make her man happy no matter what.

[animesenpai]

I dunno tbh sometimes I just click with someone sometimes I don't its hit or miss

[BloodCursedDeviant]

Loving, caring, affectionate, playful but also mature and a tad strict.

[Zolly99999]

Funny , out going , spontaneous, charming, witty , intelligent, hard worker

[dolemite89]

guys just want a girl with a good attitude about things and actually has a sense of humor.

[Jackson619]

Sensitive affectionate understanding freaky

[Jackson619]

Are you freaky

[fonduegirl]

Probably

[kangy]

thoughtful and kind

[Blueeyes81]

Playful and sweet.

[RavVid]

Fun, happy nature, loving.

[Charliefretz329]

Fun, easy going. Horny

[Part2603]

The jiggly kind.

[shortster]

Kind, honest, and loyal.

[Lickmymeet]

Feminine submissive cooperative peaceful

[Jouth]

dumb broad who can lie on her back

[Ironic_Method]

Smart, submissive, caring, funny.

[TallAnon]

Every man is different in that regard.

[fonduegirl]

Just want to design an attractive likeable character

[Waldoe]

Compatable is best

[Celticwolf78]

Kind caring and loving

[BLP11520]

Positive, funny and kind. Smart but not a Karen.

[Hotboy_booblover]

Big boobs

[FakeNIK]

Toxic ones...

[icetome]

i think