Women giving up easy for sex?

[Anonymous]

I'm a girl so no need to get all worked up but I ve been hearing so many stories of women being dumped after the guy they were sleeping with, refused to make the friends with benefits situation to a relationship.

So many of my own female friends had the sake thing to say that they started texting the guy, bringing him over to their homes and having sex with him, going on dates with a guy who clearly was only looking for a casual arrangement.

Once they started asking for a relationship, the guy disappears or breaks it off. One of my female friends who recently had her friends with benefits situation breakup said she and her friends with benefits barely talked about deeper things. She said sometimes he would stay over and cook with her etc but there was no real connection or talk

I dont get it. Why are women giving up so easily for some random guys?

What kind of woman can actually be a "relationship material" for a guy who is into the casual sex scene, that will make him go from a fucboy to a boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

Women have backed themselves into a corner on this. They have allowed casual sex to become the norm and the expectation now. Men expect it, so if they don't get it they move on because they know there are plenty of other women out there who will give it up. So women feel pressure now to compete with other women by being willing to have casual sex. But men typically don't take women seriously when they are up for casual sex. It's a conundrum women have created for themselves that has no easy solution. The best thing you can do is be a quality woman who respects herself enough to not sleep around and hope a quality man will be into her.

What is a quality woman? Honestly, I think most of today's women have lost sight of what makes them valuable enough to a man that he would want to do what it takes to never lose her. I'll just say it means not being a modern woman.

[SiberFox]

Sex will get a mans attention, it won't keep it. Always establish the relationship before sex.
These women bought the lie of empowerment through sexual gratification. Sad.

[Zolly99999]

I find it the exact opposite.. women are harder to get.

[Asker]

Not at all. Here I'm seeing this situation left and right

[Zolly99999]

Wow.. it's the exact opposite here where I live.

[Asker]

Maybe it's the older women because women from 20-35 are stuck in this exact position. Some even 38

[Zolly99999]

Maybe. Different cities different mentality too.

[Guy13]

You have sense. Read the book Hooked.

[Asker]

What do you mean by this?

[Guy13]

It was a research project by Neuroscience and Neurologists that connect Brain, Emotion, and Body overall function and behavior patterns and changes. It will explain your lady friends easily.

[Guy13]

They took the research data and made a book out of it. It’s a longer title actually as they kept the journal article title. Search book Hooked

[Asker]

What's the author's name?

[Guy13]

I don’t know🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️ Lucky to remember the title 3 years ago…