Guys, what's your favorite kind of date?

Question

What kind of date is your favorite to go on with your girlfriend/SO? Which is most likely to turn you on?

chnapo · Accepted Answer

I will comment on each one (my point of view):

Casual restaurant - good for getting to know each other, like the first dates if they should be "out of the book" and romantic. It´s fine because at that point you might not mnow about each other´s interests and if you want to talk, you can talk, if you don´t know what to say, you can just enjoy the food and it will not be weird. The same goes for fancy restaurant, it is just more classy and the ice cream, just being more casual.

Theater is also great, but it is less about each other and more about just spending time together watching the movie as it is rude to talk in the theater. I would say, a nice addition to the restaurant for dating, but not perfect for getting to know each other.

Bowling, mini golf - these are activities I would prefer to do in a group of friends, so either getting to know each other´s friends or something like a double date.

Movie night - definitely not for the first date, but great to make things move forward, there is a lot of opportunity for cuddling and getting intimate. I wouldn´t agree or call someone for a movie night if I wasn´t comfortable with things getting a bit physical, because the chances are pretty high. Or maybe I should say, if you don´t get physical during a movie night, there is something wrong with your chemistry.

DevilBoy2003 · Accepted Answer

I'd like to spend time my partner and know her the original her in private not making an environment where people usually try to be which they r not and trying to look perfect, because i think if u love someone and u r willing to improve your relationship it's good if u know each other's imperfections as well and accept it,

also if things get a bit more romantic u don't have to wait until u get a private place

But ya long story short if the love is real noone would care if they r no going to any fancy hotels or etc but r willing to spend time. But ya first date should be casual one.

Alex8736 · Answer

I like places where you can socialize for example a quiet place to start where bars/restaurants everyone talks so loud and it's hard to carry a conversation along with plenty of distractions. if it's possibly the 1st 5 dates it's crucial to get to know someone's likes and dislikes vs "what do you want to do? I don't know what would YOU like to do?" What you want is have the same things in common so you wouldn't want to go someplace thinking the other is having a good time but in reality they are not but are trying to be nice and not saying anything and suddenly get ghosted

BHooper · Answer

If its a first date I think bowling/ mini golf/ any other fun and easy activity is the best. Going to any type of restaurant is never a good first date idea because I want to talk to my date and at times we'd be sitting there just chewing. I also wouldn't want to be caught talking with food in my mouth. Same with Going to the cinema, you don't have any real interaction as you're sitting in silence. I want to talk to my date and see if I'd be interested in a second date. So a fun little activity and then take away food after is perfect. A lazy movie night in is perfect for couples who already dating. Because it at home it allows you to cuddle up and embrace whilst you watch the movie. Plus you can pause the movie at anytime to do other fun 'things'.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

In an early stage, I prefer places that give opportunity for conversation. We have some nice beaches here with street food vendors around - I find that very convenient.

In a late stage: it can be anything that catches both of our interests; such as sight seeing, local events, yes: dining, trying an activity or 'attraction' that's new to us.

Rab1901 · Answer

Aside from Other, Bowling/mini golf is my fave. There are so many more creative ideas though. Some cost a lot of money but some are free. I think an escape room is a fun idea and so are shooting pool, karaoke, arcade, walk/bike/skate, painting, fishing, amusement park, etc.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

As for my favorite kind of date I’m proud to say it’s the kind of date where two people can simply be themselves. As for the date it would be something fun & something in the sun. At for the date it would be something adventurous & something spontaneous all the way. From roller coasters to jet skis & from a walk on the beach to a walk in the park. The date would be magical that is all I can say.

TallAnon · Answer

Preferably I'm with someone that has similar interests, so we can find a movie we both enjoy (not some random "comedy" we both hate) and we just watch and discuss that with some pizza on the side. Nice and cozy. Then when we inevitably have sex, we still have a good time even if she does suck at giving a blowjob for example.. Too specific? Ah well

NathanDavis · Answer

cooking ourselves is best...  and then you can also watch some movies, have dessert and few more other things, the more intimate the better

SiberFox · Answer

Afternoon out, then market for fresh produce, cook at home, movie or video games. Sex at any point during this would be amazing. But that is assuming we've been going out for some time.

Kabluie · Answer

I don't see going to a baseball game together on here lol But Bowling and mini-golf are great too. I always have my ball and shoes ready to go.

bean2k21 · Answer

Flying to Paris and getting really stoned And sitting on Napoleon's throne And saying to her 'Oh my Josephine,  Away from you the world is a desert In which I am all alone.'

shanshu · Answer

Bowling, it relax's you both and you have fun, no awkward silence or nervous to make a move. You have fun bowling and have a laugh and hug if you get a strike or hit a few pins. Gets your heart racing with excitement and you can finish it off with a movie night in and see where it goes in the night

dailyoctopus94 · Answer

If it's a stay at home movie night, more than likely we won't make it through the film without fucking.

Lionman95 · Answer

I generally like something active because it's less likely to make me uncomfortable especially if it's one of the first dates hence you don't have to look each other in the eyes all the time but you can talk to each other nevertheless.

ArtemisSilver · Answer

Honestly a movie at home is highly under rated. But if you really want to make a guy feel special nerd out with him over something he likes and do it with him.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Of course I prefer a stay at home movie night but my second favorite would going out to dinner a restaurant that's dimly lit that has a nice atmosphere then after that a romantic walk down at the water front so you can see the lights of the city while we hold hands and talk maybe grab two cones so I can have some ice cream kisses

DavidRaul · Answer

I think casual restaurant would be better. You don't want something fancy to turn everything awkward and uncomfortable.

Ironic_Method · Answer

I like the cooking a nice meal and having a movie at home. I'm fairly introverted and like being at home, it's comfortable.

Sparkie460 · Answer

We like seeing a movie then go out to dinner and then we go to the beach and watch the sunset. Too bad we haven't had time to do it in a long time

Bmories99 · Answer

My favorite kind of date is going to a coffee house and getting some afegatos (coffee with icecream) and then taking a walk along the beach as the sunsets talking and just having fun.

Juxtapose · Answer

You forgot the best date of them all, picnic dates! I would make her food myself.

EarthRealm · Answer

If anything makes my dick hard it’s eating some Good Food my dad Made some Amazing Cookies and crème pie that always made my dick hard when I was Eating a bowl of Cookies and crème pie by myself.

convo_king89 · Answer

the kind where the girl isn’t there just for the free food.

jamesgoldman · Answer

Give me the fancy restaurant Steak, single malt and hopefully a cigar bar (Boisdale for example)

Bug99 · Answer

I don't care what kind of date it is. All that matters is that I get to spend time with her..

Phoenix98 · Answer

Just one where we can chill, relax, talk and have fun.

exitseven · Answer

I like ot do fun stuff like mini golf or maybe something outdoorsy like hiking.

Wubs3000 · Answer

Any date that involves them really doesn't matter as long as we are spending time together.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I suppose I like any of those. But turning me on? What does that have to do with anything? It's a date. Lol. It's not sexual.

larry69 · Answer

Casual Restaurant and then go home and watch a movie. Sex will happen at some point during the movie.

loveslongnails · Answer

Stay at home for sure --- SO many things can happen!!!

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