Can a man in his 50s actually romantically love a women much younger (20s)?

[Anonymous]

Yes

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[VikingWarLord]

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https://twitter.com/zeynepmyenisey/status/1549922228338319360?s=20&t=yzrdPCHV8coC7Kij_Nhf4A

[kylee2437]

In my opinion, no. He infatuated with the fact that she is young and most likely attractive. Maybe even glad that he can manipulate her into the person he wants her to be because people in their 20s are still trying to find themselves/ lack dating experience. Someone in their 50s definitely doesn’t have the same outlook on life as someone in their 20s. He’s in love with the fetish he’s trying to pursue

[Gangactivities911]

Why so pessimistic?

[kylee2437]

@Gangactivities911 the truth can sound pessimistic

[Gangactivities911]

What’s the oldest guy you’ve dated out of curiosity?

[kylee2437]

33 years old

[kylee2437]

And me and him even didn’t have mutual compatibility because of age differences

[Aerissa_Jade]

Yes, feelings and emotions, the chemical reactions that they are not limited by age.

Romantically in love with someone, caring about them and having it actually work out though are different things.

I've dated a guy in his late 40's who was and still is madly in love with me... a few years ago, we still keep in touch and he definitely treated me better than almost anyone my own age.

[bean2k21]

Wow very insightful. I beat myself up for liking younger sometimes but they are just feelings.

[Aerissa_Jade]

@bean2k21 Pretty much, I try to imagine people as if we are all not in human form and all the same age, like in a perfect existence, then would it really matter?

[bean2k21]

@Aerissa_Jade oh no, now I'm madly in love

[Aerissa_Jade]

@bean2k21 😂😂😂 well it would be interesting to see if our souls have ages and if that matters, I suspect they do, like I could be a billion years old and you just a million, but it wouldn't matter who is more ancient then.

[Sparkie460]

He can probably love her better than someone who is younger

[andreasderjuengere]

I think that theoretically it's possible. But I expect it to be quite an exception.

Most of the time such an age difference is motivated by sex only.

[bean2k21]

Oh he'll yes. I call them "My Old Man Crush." LOL. I've met girls in their 20s who are really deep and intelligent and just amazing people. And of course they come in those 20 yr old bodies which doesn't hurt.

[AviatorTom]

Of course he can. My father was 30 years older than my mother and they were married for 40 years until he died.

[OddBeMe]

I don't know, i guess “anything” is possible. But that much of an age difference won't have a lot of personality links. she's doing it for money. he's doing it for young flesh.

[zagor]

That is ridiculous. A lot of people enjoy the company of someone with significant age difference. Usually not in a romantic sense, but there certainly can be "personality links".

[OddBeMe]

Again, it’s “possible” but don’t be a moron. She’s doing it for the nest egg, he’s doing it because she’s hotter than chicks his own age.

[zagor]

Yet I've known women who got with older guys who made less than they did.

[OddBeMe]

@zagor nit saying they’re smart. Sometimes its subconscious. Why would a 20 yr old be attracted to a 50 yr old? It ain't rocket science. Hunter gatherer. Not like im saying make that shit illegal. Just dont call a spade a club.

[zagor]

There is more to attraction than nice skin.

[torossia1171]

I think any guy who gets with a woman younger than her age, even if she's an adult, is a closet pedophile in my opinion.

[MysteriousDarkness]

@torossia1171
What do you mean by her age?

[torossia1171]

What business does a younger woman have with an older guy?

[MysteriousDarkness]

@torossia1171
As long as they are adults and treat each other right it shouldn't matter.

[torossia1171]

I don't care if they're both adults

[SoftCliff]

I agree.. If a guy is in his 50's and is attracted to 20 year olds, he's probably attracted to 16 year olds, as well and would date them, if it was legal

[exitseven]

If a guy stays healthy and in shape he would have no problem.

[anon1903]

lol no. he just wants to bang her tight ass.

[MysteriousDarkness]

Depending on their ages that is a 21-39 years of difference ages. That is not that common.

[Anonymous]

He can. But why would he? He most likely experienced enough to know at that age that it isn't going to last.

[driven159]

had a girlfriend 35 years younger than me for a few years

[QuietVerbena]

It’s possible but rare

[Guy13]

Like a daughter...

[Anonymous]

A bit of a pedo 🤣😍

[Avicenna]

Absolutely