I told a guy friend about my horrible breakup with my boyfriend and he can't understand how my boyfriend cheated on such a sweet person like me.
As you get older, you'll understand that people are individuals (even in a relationship) and no matter how great you are to them, they will still do what they want to do.
There's no such thing as men who cheat on good women. There's men who cheat and men who don't. A man who wants to cheat, will. A man who doesn't want to cheat, won't.
People who cheat do it because of their own issues. It's never the other persons fault.
Your guy friend is a kind guy but even he knows being sweet isn't going to stop a guy from cheating.
Getting cheated on sucks but there are other guys out there who are willing to treat you the way you deserve.
Take time. Heal. and soon enough it will all be in the past.
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It’s a vice versa thing. Some men cheat. Some don’t. Some women cheat. Some don’t.
It’s about “finding the right one”. You’ll get your heart broken. That doesn’t mean you should give up. It just means that they were not the one.
Always check for red flags.
Why do women cheat on good men? I stuck by that mini-bitch for 10 years, even after she stopped fucking me 4 years in! I wasted all those years only to have her cheat on me after 10 years of undying loyalty!! I COULD'VE used that time to find a REAL girlfriend!! In fact, I HAD other offers but I turned them down because I was so in love with her!! Had I KNOWN she was gonna cheat on me, I would've gone with one of them, instead!!
I bet your guy friend is a good guy, but you friend zoned him to be with the cheater right?
That is pretty common. Many girls choose the type of guys that cheat (hint, the type that have casual sex in their past are often cheaters) and then they don't understand why a cheater would cheat and continue to choose the same type of guys.
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As baffled as I am by the behavior of women, sometimes I can’t explain men, either. I will never understand cheating down. It might be really short term thinking and looking at only the immediate gratification and not the long term consequences. If you look at the cost of their divorces, Jeff Bezos got a $35 billion blow job and Bill Gates had a $75 billion affair. How good was it?
Because "good women" are not as good as they think. They have assholish traits, so they ignore good men who like them, and they date jerks instead, and they do jerkish things.
I see this a lot, where women complain they can't find a good guy, but their idea of a good guy is a personal bank and worker slave, not a best friend, and sorry, but good guys aren't interested in that.- u
people that cheat will cheat for their own reasons our faults... it's not because of the person they are with
it is because they are cheaters themselves A lot of men take new pussy when it is offered, it is a rare occasion and unlike women, we don’t get endless pick and choose options.
Women cheat on good men because they get bored, think the grass is greener, or want to “test their love”
Because there is always something better to young men. And you fall within that category at 18.
Any time someone cheats, it's because of an internal conflict and personal emotional deficiency they have.
Because they aren’t ready to settle down and try to work on a longterm relationship. They would rather find someone new as it’s safer.
Make sense?They think you forgive them or told them self out of trying but one they start to cheat. Someone just don't care cheat
because some of them are literal psychpathic narcissists, they know exactly what they are doing and intentionally target vulnerable naïve women
Sweet people don't call themselves 'sweet'
I call cap.Same women do with men. Selfish. Only thinking of what THEY want, not the other person.
Ha! Either you have shit taste in men or you are not so sweet in relationships.
Your boyfriend is stupid. If your physique is good, it's ridiculous to cheat
where you satisfying him sexually? every day
Because women don't date good men. When the so-called good women only date bad men.
There is no such thing as good woman or man
We cheat for sex
Why do women?
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