He is American. I'm Asian. We met at a Thai temple, which hosted a festival. He came to me and asked my number; my girls said to take a shot and give a chance to each other. So I gave him my number, and he called me that night. He is polite and shows a positive attitude at the beginning while calling or messaging. But he sometimes said flirting words, as he is a virile man, do I like kissing? Does the American man always express like that?
There are other things I couldn't understand. We met on April 12; the dating started around the end of April. He lost his job at the beginning of June; then, he started complaining he didn't have money. He always mentioned a lot of bills he had to pay. When we hung out, he jokingly asked me to pay. I paid serval. And he always likes saying now you know what
it would help if you prepared for me a Christmas gift when we talk about a product, like kitchenware, Alexa...
When using chopsticks, he asked me: Are you willing to buy chopsticks for me? Does he make fun of me? Do you often do that when you are with your girlfriend/boyfriend?
It's three months, enough to pay for everything for him?
A lot of men who are losers and rejects in America will try to get an Asian girl because they think they are easy and okay with being treated badly. He sounds like one of them. I would stay away from him.
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Tell him to get a job and stop muching off of you or kick him to the curb. Little boys are taken care of by others, boys take care of some of their needs, young men take care of themselves, and grown men take care of others. Don't date little boys.
Yeah drop kick him, he’s an arsehole.
he’s just using you.
He is using you for money. Do not give him money or pay his bills. That's not your job. Next time tell him no. He is what we call here in the US a fucking douche bag.
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A lot of men are jerks. Looks like you might have one here.
His actions are not normal.
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