Do Americans view dating differently to Europeans?

[JustMeL120]

In Europe people choose there partner according to. Education, etiquettes, culture, personality and life ambitions and sometime health and genetics.

In america people choose their partner according to how they look and how much they earn.

Which part of the world you you be happier to date in Europe or America if you had a choice.

[4ngelic]

most people only date people cause they have feelings for them (and love is based on looks + personality everywhere not money or culture solely thats not possible) except for douche bags who want to be players and play with someones heart for sex or golddiggers. that's the same in Europe and america but i think they're more playboys in america cos people are less open with casual sex, fwbs and hookups, and also dont view sex as connected to love as much as europeans, so more dudes date just to get laid

europeans and americans do view dating differently though 100% but its not on what makes you date people. the difference is european dont see multiple people at the same time to testdrive them then start dating when they get enough feelings for someone and they tick all the right boxes. in Europe if you see someone your exclusive and they're your boyfriend/girlfriend. theyre not just an option. if you do American style you'll be considered a dirty cheating playgirl/boy. european people i think are more romantic and dont think about this stuff strategically you just let your feelings take you where they take you, try it with that person, then if it doesn't work then you wait until you like someone again and then try it with them

[JustMeL120]

No that's what we do here as well we date people then if it doesn't work we move on then date again then move on. But I guess we are more interested in intelligence and culture than the way someone looks.

[TonyMetal___86]

I don't think that this is true, i think that the whole western countries including western european countries and the U. S's majority of couples are corrupted and do not know what real love and marriage are!

Brainwashed by feminazis and their socities lacks of morals and values...

There are some good european and American couple who picks their other half according to love and all the things that you have mentioned above...

By the way, where's the eastern culture? Middle east or africa, or these aren't considered people?

[JustMeL120]

I am just including the countries I live in. I don't know enough about africa dating or middle East.

[TonyMetal___86]

I'm just trying to tell you that the earth ain't only Europe and america, you have more choices haha
I have hundreds of europeans and American friends and maybe talked to thousands of them for decades snd that's not the deal, people are different, they aren't all the same that comes in package with one label on it...

[JustMeL120]

Tbh I am only including countries that I know have the conformists mentality or the sheep mentality if you prefer l. For example doing things every else is doing or that the media tell them. I don't know enough about africa to know if they have the sheep mentality.

[TonyMetal___86]

Africa, america, asia, australia... etc are just names to lands where people resides, people have different mindsets, traditions and cultures, you might find people with same mentality but each one of them is living on the opposite sides of the planet, i understand what you're saying...
For example: let's see what you personally prefer? If you want to get married, how would you pick your man? Based on what?

[JustMeL120]

I am a sapiosexual so I have problems finding a partner.
As for culture they really affect how people think. People base there opinions based on knowledge and some cultures have poor education. As for the sheep mentality it's bigger in different places due to the legal system. If people are scared of the government or legal system they are more likely to adapt the sheep mentality
The sheep mentality is also to do with iq and iq can be passed on genetaticaly if you live in a country where low iq people are more likely to reproduce then more low iq people will be in this country. For example I think dating someone because of there look is a low iq mentality. Especially because unless you are a top model normal people's look is only superficial such as makeup and fake lips. Therefore if you live in a country that influences this. Low iq people are more likely to reproduce

[TonyMetal___86]

This means that the majority of earth's population have low iq's hehe
Now about the sapiosexual, well that's new to my ear, what more are they going to invent? "Homosexual, bisexual, asexual, pansexual..." the list won't end and now SAPIO sexual 😂😂
When i 1st read it the homosapians came to my mind, i wanna invent something called neanderthsexual HAHAHA 😅
In my opinion, i believe that humans are only male and female and real love, real marriage, real sex and a real family with real feelings can only be achieved between a 1 man and 1 woman united together...

[JustMeL120]

Yea well to me the reproductive system is to make children. Why is ok for people to be attracted to someone physical looks but not intelligence. Intelligence is also part of genetic survival just as much as looks. As for people having sex every five minutes and watching other people do it that not natural that lust pervertion. Yet people do it all the time and think it's normal

[TonyMetal___86]

I agree with you, PLUS sex is a way to translate your feelings physically to your husband or the person that you, it gives you extreme beautiful feelings, also feels connected to your other half and at the end it serves also to make kids which will be the seed of love between you and you're man...
Personally i prefer sex after marriage and only with the spouse, that's real sex!

[TheSpaceGnome]

I'm in the US, and I choose a woman based on intelligence, creativity, skill, personality, life ambitions, health, and looks.

I don't care about how much she earns, or etiquette.

[JustMeL120]

Why looks this is th confusing part. What I think could happen with us I that the population beauty will decrease through generation. Because picking a partner based on fake lips l, plastic surgery and makeup. Isn't true beauty it's not to do with genetics. What if your descendents can't afford plastic surgery but have the same genes as your wife and have small lips or small boobs. What will happen then will she not find a partner.

[TheSpaceGnome]

1. Plastic surgery makes people look ugly, not attractive, and makeup is just lying so I won't date women who wear it, plus makeup smells bad, and I prefer women who act like "one of the guys" but are naturally gorgeous.

2. Aging is from disease, and damaging the body with elective surgeries would only cause further disease. Disease is unattractive because our brains are wired to avoid disease for survival reasons.

3. Healthy genetics do not age unless severely injured, I still look the same as when I was 14 despite being in my late 30s, and I'm going to look this way at 50 and 60 etc. Dating based on looks means a better shot at a longer marriage, as it increases the liklihood of longevity in an SO, especially if they are older but look younger.

4. Without looks, all the other points of interest/attraction only results in a platonic friendship. I treat friends like family, so the only difference between a best friend and wife is sexual contact. I'm not going to want sexual contact unless aroused, and I'm not going to be aroused without good looks on a woman do cause that. It's just basic biology.

5. I personally prefer women with unusually large boobs (real ones) and absurdly cute faces

6. I do not want any children, so I'm not going to have any decendents, I may decide to get a vasectomy if need be.

7. Personality is equally important, she would need to be best friend material AND attractive to even be considered, so she would need to play video games, make art, and like science and sci-fi and anime etc. I'm aware e-girl model level (naturally) attractive artistic geeks are rare, but I only need 1.

[JustMeL120]

I actually love science don't have plastic surgery dont ever wear makeup and look young for my age and I have been rejected by men for some girls who wear tones of makeup and probably would get plastic surgery. The majority of men rather a stupid girl who wears makeup and has fake lips and but and who is stupid doesn't get science can't play chess and doesn't know anything about art.

[TheSpaceGnome]

The majority of people are stupid and boring, so of course the majority of either gender is going to prefer a stupid and boring partner.

I'd rather have the one who knows what an eurypterid, graphics tablet, isekai, mod, and rtx 3090 are.

[KrakenAttackin]

I have known plenty of European women and they are just as trashy as American women.

[In_Trance]

I don't think so