Why doesn't my friend realise just because a guy is talking to her doesn't mean he's into her?

[Anonymous]

he's never made any romantic move on her

[spartan55]

You girls think if a guy watches your stupid stories on social media that a guy is interested too... so..

[Asker]

I don't use social media tbh

[spartan55]

That makes you a better person, seriously.

[Asker]

I hate social media and how people use it to look cool

[PinkMichae]

If it's not hurting anyone, who cares if she thinks they are into her? She's the only one that will be effected by it when he lets her down.

Or does it bother you because she's confident and she claims a guy before you can?

Or does she think a guy is into her but you like him and she never gives you the chance to explore it?

[Asker]

No she's my good friend and cousin. She's about 12 years older than me and she's wasting her time on this guy who just treats her as a friend. But she keeps talking to him thinking there is something more I feel bad for her

[Asker]

The thing is tho he has let her down so many times but she still goes after him. I just don't want her to get hurt but I think she is lonely becuase she's in her 40s and never married

[RuthlessAggression]

Are you into him?

[PinkMichae]

That's what I'm thinking too.

[RuthlessAggression]

@PinkMichae People sound jealous, when they talk like this, so that's what it makes me think. That the QA likes the same guy

[PinkMichae]

I agree.

[Asker]

No I'm not into him I already have a guy in my own country I'm getting to know. No this is my friend and cousin who is wastinf her time on a guy that just sees her as a friend and he has also said that he sees her as a sister and tells her he's dating others

[RuthlessAggression]

"a guy you're getting to know in another country"

Yet here you are, complaining about this guy

Don't you think you oughta stay TO YOUR OWN COUNTRY

[Asker]

She is my cousin I don't want her to get hurt I'm only looking out for her.

[RuthlessAggression]

My ass

[Asker]

Either that or she will waste more of her life on a guyvthat just sees her as a friend. She's 44 and very miserable she tells me all the time

[RuthlessAggression]

Like I said, you're likely just jealous

[Asker]

Aye jealous of some fat cunt in Canada

[RuthlessAggression]

not at all

[Asker]

Fair enough mate